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Old 05-12-2011, 06:42 PM   #1
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My Daughter's Getting Married!

I am so excited. My daughter and her boyfriend came over last night and told us they are engaged! We are so thrilled and I really want to share with my Her 2 family!! I know you all understand as I was not sure 6+ yrs ago I would see this day but I will. They want to get married in Nov/Dec so we have to get cracking now with our plan. Yikes. But I am so happy.
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Diagnosed 8/04 at age 45
1.9cm tumor, ER+PR-, Her2 3+(rt side)
2 micromets to sentinel node
Stage 2A
left 3mm DCIS - low grade ER+PR+Her2 neg
lumpectomies 9/7/04
4DD AC followed by 4 DD taxol
Used Leukine instead of Neulasta
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Oophorectomy 8/05
Started Arimidex 9/05
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Old 05-12-2011, 07:55 PM   #2
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Re: My Daughter's Getting Married!

Congratulations to everyone! My daughter got married January 2, 2010. The most fun time ever was shopping for her wedding dress! Good luck with the planning. As soon as you get the venue booked the rest will come easy. Such a joyous occasion - enjoy every moment!
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Tumor 2.2 cm, Stage II, Grade 3, Sentinel Node biopsy negative
ER+ (30%) /PR+ (50%), HER2+++
AC X 4 dose dense, Taxol X 4 dose dense
Herceptin started with 2nd Taxol, given weekly until chemo done
then given every 3 weeks for one year ending on March 16, 2007
Radiation 30 treatments
Tamoxifen - 2 yrs (pre-menopausal)
May 2008 - Feb 2012 Femara
Aug 2008 - Feb 2012 Zometa every 6 months
March 2012 - Stop Femara, now Evista for bone strengthening
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Old 05-12-2011, 08:18 PM   #3
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Re: My Daughter's Getting Married!

What a special time! I am so happy for you to be able to celebrate this milestone. Yes, the diagnosis makes it all the sweeter. May you have all the blessings you deserve! Congratulations!
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3.2 cm 2/18 +lymph nodes
Stage 2b; E+/P+/Her2 +++
Nottingham score grade 2
Ki67 30%
3/2010 A/C 4 DD/2wks
5/2010 Herceptin/Taxotere 4D/3wks
8/2010 Herceptin until May 2011
Tamoxifin 20mg
9/2010 RAD 34 treatments
Pet scan Aug 2010 clear
Port removed July 2011
Bone scan, chest MRI 12/11 clear
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Old 05-12-2011, 08:20 PM   #4
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Re: My Daughter's Getting Married!

Fabulous news. Enjoy the planning and the execution!
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Old 05-12-2011, 08:42 PM   #5
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Congratulations to everyone. Have fun at the wedding !!!!!
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Old 05-13-2011, 09:18 AM   #6
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Re: My Daughter's Getting Married!

Congratulations!
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Old 05-13-2011, 10:28 AM   #7
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Re: My Daughter's Getting Married!

Congratulations, what a joy it is!
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Old 05-13-2011, 02:02 PM   #8
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Re: My Daughter's Getting Married!

Becky,This is wonderful,I hope that you have many,many events like this,Congrats to you & your family!! Joanna J
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37 rounds radiation
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Old 05-13-2011, 03:27 PM   #9
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Re: My Daughter's Getting Married!

This is fantastic news. To reach such a milestone after bc. Congratulations to you and to your daughter. Next milestone, watching the grandchildren grow up. And you will. Blessings, Darlene
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Stray kitten found my lump while I was playing with it. It is now my pet and my dog is not real happy about that.
Mammo good
last herceptin 11/21/11 YAY
reconstruction 12/09/11
Chapter closed 12/10/11, hopefully, fingers crossed
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Old 05-13-2011, 05:03 PM   #10
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Re: My Daughter's Getting Married!

Weddings are so wonderful - and you will be a beautiful Mother-of-the-Bride. Congratulations and have a wonderful time with all the planning.
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3/01/10: found lump in rt.breast
3/12/10: mammogram/ultrasnd/biopsy-invasive bc & DCIS; 2 tumors (2cm er-/pr-/HER2-& 1.8 cm er-/pr-/HER2+); grade 3;poorly differentiated
3/24/10:sent.node biopsy clear
3/31/10:bi-lateral mx.;atypical ductal hyperplasia-lft side
4/21/10:wound revision-infection/scarring 4/28/10:seromas both sides
5/21/10:port installed,TCH chemo (6 x 3 wks); Herc,-1yr; 33 rad tx after chemo
07/2010: port not working-2nd port didnt'work;3rd port opposite side.
07/2010: 2 weeks after 3rd port surgery, threw 3 pulm. emboli-IVC filter installed; warfarin
08/2010: hospitalizations w/3 of chemos; decision to stop after 4th-on to radiation in Oct 2010;Herc cont.
12/03/2010 - finished 33 rads Hooray!! cont. Herc. every 3 wks
4/2011 - pneumonia ??? Nope-radiation pneumonitis. No more Herc.
5/2011 - NED!!! port out.
8/2011 - clean PET & CT scans.Still NED
7/2012 - Still NED/very blessed.
2/2013 - 6 mos checkup-all clear. CA2729 down frm 13 to 11.
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Old 05-13-2011, 05:43 PM   #11
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Re: My Daughter's Getting Married!

Becky, what a wonderful milestone!!!!! So happy for you and your family.

Hmmm.....what's next, grandma??
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June 2002 extensive hi grade DCIS (pre-cancer-stage 0, clean sentinal node) Mastectomy/implant - no chemo, rads. "cured?"
9/2004 Diag: Stage IV extensive liver mets (!) ER/PR- Her2+++
10/04-3/05 Weekly Taxol/Carboplatin/Herceptin , complete response!
04/05 - 4/07 Herception every 3 wks, Continue NED
04/07 - recurrence to liver - 2 spots, starting tykerb/avastin trial
06/07 8/07 10/07 Scans show stable, continue on Tykerb/Avastin
01/08 Progression in liver
02/08 Begin (TDM1) trial
08/08 NED! It's Working! Continue on TDM1
02/09 Continue NED
02/10 Continue NED. 5/10 9/10 Scans NED 10/10 Scans NED
12/10 Scans not clear....4/11 Scans suggest progression 6/11 progression confirmed in liver
07/11 - 11/11 Herceptin/Xeloda -not working:(
12/11 Begin MM302 Phase I trial - bust:(
03/12 3rd times the charm? AKT trial

5/12 Scan shows reduction! 7/12 More reduction!!!!
8/12 Whoops...progression...trying for Perjeta/Herceptin (plus some more nasty chemo!)
9/12 Start Perjeta/Herceptin, chemo on hold due to infection/wound in leg, added on cycle 2 &3
11/12 Poops! progression in liver, Stop Perjeta/Taxo/Herc
11/12 Navelbine/Herce[ptin - try for a 3 cycles, no go.
2/13 Gemzar/Carbo/Herceptin - no go.
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Old 05-14-2011, 08:41 PM   #12
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Re: My Daughter's Getting Married!

Been so busy here checking for the spammers, that I missed this WONDERFUL news!

WOW! That is what I can say. It has been so long since my daughter was married, but I remember it like yesterday.

Enjoy this time making memories with your daughter.
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Found suspicious lump 9/2000
Lumpectomy, then node dissection and port placement
Stage IIB, 8 pos nodes of 18, Grade 3, ER & PR -
Adriamycin 12 weekly, taxotere 4 rounds
36 rads - very little burning
3 mos after rads liver full of tumors, Stage IV Jan 2002, one spot on sternum
Weekly Taxol, Navelbine, Herceptin for 27 rounds to NED!
2003 & 2004 no active disease - 3 weekly Herceptin + Zometa
Jan 2005 two mets to brain - Gamma Knife on Jan 18
All clear until treated cerebellum spot showing activity on Jan 2006 brain MRI & brain PET
Brain surgery on Feb 9, 2006 - no cancer, 100% radiation necrosis - tumor was still dying
Continue as NED while on Herceptin & quarterly Zometa
Fall-2006 - off Zometa - watching one small brain spot (scar?)
2007 - spot/scar in brain stable - finished anticoagulation therapy for clot along my port-a-catheter - 3 angioplasties to unblock vena cava
2008 - Brain and body still NED! Port removed and scans in Dec.
Dec 2008 - stop Herceptin - Vaccine Trial at U of W begun in Oct. of 2011
STILL NED everywhere in Feb 2014 - on wing & prayer
7/14 - Started twice yearly Zometa for my bones
Jan. 2015 checkup still shows NED
2015 Neuropathy in feet - otherwise all OK - still NED.
Same news for 2016 and all of 2017.
Nov of 2017 - had small skin cancer removed from my face. Will have Zometa end of Jan. 2018.
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