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Old 09-08-2006, 02:58 PM   #1
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Please pray

My husband Bob was killed in a motorcycle accident early this morning, please pray. I am numb.
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Old 09-08-2006, 03:10 PM   #2
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My prayers are with you from Pittsburgh, Pa


LOVE to you and your family
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DX Age 37 on August 3, 2006
Stage 1 Grade 3
ER/PR + (Highly Positive)
Her 2 +++
1.3 & 1.2 tumors right breast
node negative
lumpectomy 8-15-06
A/C Began 9-5-06 Finished A/C 11/6/06
Port Placement 9-15-06
Negative Test for BRAC1 & BRAC2 10-25-06
Began Tamoxofin November 21, 2006
First Herceptin November 27, 2006 Continues every 3 Weeks
First Radiation Treatment December 11, 2006
35 Rads Completed
Final Herceptin Treatment November 12, 2007
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Old 09-08-2006, 03:10 PM   #3
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sympathy

i am so sorry to read about your husband. what a terrible shock. i know that the next few days and weeks will be difficult. keep us posted on how you are doing. i will pray that you find some peace and comfort.
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Old 09-08-2006, 03:34 PM   #4
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What an incredible shock! You will have many prayers from us.

Just get by the best you can daily. I'm sure he'll be around you in the time to come.

Love and light,

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Old 09-08-2006, 03:41 PM   #5
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Tracy,

I don't know what to say. Please accept my deepest condolences. My prayers are with you and your beautiful children.

God Bless and Keep You,
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Old 09-08-2006, 03:49 PM   #6
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You have my deepest sympathy. I feel so sad for you and your family.
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Old 09-08-2006, 03:54 PM   #7
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Tracy, I am SO sorry to hear this...

my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Take care and God bless. Huggs.

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Dx 2/1/05, Stage 1, 0 nodes, Grade 3, ER/PR-, HER2+ (3.16 Fish)
2/7/05, Partial Mastectomy
5/18/05 Finished 6 rounds of dose dense TEC (Taxotere, Epirubicin and Cytoxan)
8/1/05 Finished 33 rads
8/18/05 Started Herceptin, every 3 weeks for a year (last one 8/10/06)

2/1/13...8 year Cancerversary and I am "perfect" (at least where cancer is concerned;)


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Old 09-08-2006, 04:14 PM   #8
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I am so sorry, its so hard going through everything else. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Mar 2006Stage IIIA, Her2/Neu 3+++, Er & Pr positive, 8 of 18 pos 03/14/06: Mastectomy 04/19/06 started Chemo adriamycin, chlophosphamide, taxotere 25 rads
Nov 1, 06: 3 years Tamoxifen, Herceptin (1yr)
Jan 2009 Femara mets to bone aromasin and aredia
June2009: Full Histerectomy
2/22/2010 6 spots in liver 2 mm-10 mm: switched to xeloda and Herceptin will continue with Aredia J
Scan February 2011 new onc, switch to abraxane
April 2011 NED clear organs, 3 spots on bone scar tissue.
Scans August 2mm spot on liver and lungs. now on to tykerb/xeloda
Dec 2011 scans nothing on lungs, liver down to 1 2 mm spot. j
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Old 09-08-2006, 04:33 PM   #9
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Tracey,
My heart goes out to you. Life just isn't fair as we all know. Hang in there, stay stong. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
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Old 09-08-2006, 04:34 PM   #10
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Dear Tracy


I am so sorry. This is so unfair . I hope you have supportive family around you at the moment.
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Old 09-08-2006, 04:39 PM   #11
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Angry

What a shock! I am so sorry to hear this. You will have many prayers here. We are here for you so keep us posted. May God wrap his arms around you and the children. Take care of yourself during this very difficult time. Sending you and the little ones a big hug, Sandy
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Navelbine & xeloda (did not work)
topical miltex for skin mets
Tykerb/xeloda
thoracentesis x 2 left lung fluid shows cancer cells
Port removal (4 years) with power port replacement
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I shall not pass this way again. Any good I can do or any kindness that I can show let me not defer or neglect it for I shall not pass this way again.
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Old 09-08-2006, 04:42 PM   #12
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Tracy

I am so sorry; the pain must seem unbearable. My whole heart goes out to you and everyone who loves your husband. My prayers are so with you!

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Old 09-08-2006, 04:48 PM   #13
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Tracy

I am so sorry for this tragedy that has taken your husband....please know we are here for you in any way we can be...sending a big warm hug and many prayers to give you the extra strength to get through this sad time.
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Diagnosed at age 49.99999 2/21/2002 via Mammography (Calcifications)
Core Biopsy 2/22/02
L. Mastectomy 2/25/2002
Stage 1, 0.7cm IDC, Node Neg from 19 nodes Her2+++ ER PR Neg
6/2003 Reconstruction W/ Tissue Expander, Silicone Implant
9/2003 Stage IV with Mets to Supraclavicular nodes
9/2003 Began Herceptin every 3 weeks
3/2006 Xeloda 2500mg/Herceptin for recurrence to neck nodes
3/2007 Added back the Xeloda with Herceptin for continued mets to nodes
5/2007 Taken Off Xeloda, no longer working
6/14/07 Taxol/Herceptin/Avastin
3/26 - 5/28/08 Taxol Holiday Whopeeeeeeeee
5/29 2008 Back on Taxol w Herceptin q 2 weeks
4/2009 Progression on Taxol & Paralyzed L Vocal Cord from Nodes Pressing on Nerve
5/2009 Begin Rx with Navelbine/Herceptin
11/09 Progression on Navelbine
Fought for and started Tykerb/Herceptin...nodes are melting!!!!!
2/2010 Back to Avastin/Herceptin
5/2010 Switched to Metronomic Chemo with Herceptin...Cytoxan and Methotrexate
Pericardial Window Surgery to Drain Pericardial Effusion
7/2010 Back to walking a mile a day...YEAH!!!!
9/2010 Nodes are back with a vengence in neck
Qualified for TDM-1 EAP
10/6/10 Begin my miracle drug, TDM-1
Mixed response, shrinking internal nodes, progression skin mets after 3 treatments
12/6/10 Started Halaven (Eribulen) /Herceptin excellent results in 2 treatments
2/2011 I CELEBRATE my 9 YEAR MARK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
7/5/11 begin Gemzar /Herceptin for node progression
2/8/2012 Gemzar stopped, Continue Herceptin
2/20/2012 Begin Tomo Radiation to Neck Nodes
2/21/2012 I CELEBRATE 10 YEARS
5/12/2012 BeganTaxotere/ Herceptin is my next miracle for new node progression
6/28/12 Stopped Taxotere due to pregression, Started Perjeta/Herceptin
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Old 09-08-2006, 04:49 PM   #14
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I am so sorry Tracey. Life is NOT fair!!

Take care and get lots of support. You will have an angel looking after you now.

Kindly,

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Old 09-08-2006, 04:50 PM   #15
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Dear Tracy,

My heart is breaking for you. I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Love and hugs,
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Old 09-08-2006, 04:51 PM   #16
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Tragic loss

I am so sorry for your loss at this time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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Old 09-08-2006, 04:55 PM   #17
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I am so sorry Tracy. Please take care and gather the courage.

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Old 09-08-2006, 06:24 PM   #18
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NOT FAIR...I am so sorry
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Old 09-08-2006, 06:30 PM   #19
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Tracy - I am so very sorry. Holding you in prayer and sending love. Tami
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Old 09-08-2006, 06:38 PM   #20
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Tracy,

My prayers are with you now and will continue to be with you.

I am so very sorry.

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