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08-13-2010, 08:32 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: New Boston, NH
Posts: 275
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
I too am completely shocked!! I am so thankful for this board and what your parents have done for all of us. Your father sounded like an amazing person and I am so lucky to have met him on here. My thoughs and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Sending you big hugs!
Sarah
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Jan '07 felt lump (PCP "thought" it was a cyst)
Nov '07 "bloody nipple discharge" (OB-GYN "thought" I had fibrocystic breasts and told me to take 400 IU's of Vitamin E)
Note: Mother was dx w/BC in 2004 (ER/PR+ & HER2+) & mets to brain April 2007 (she passed away June 17, 2008)
2/1/08: Biopsy Dx: DCIS (age 34)
2/22/08: Surgery R-side Mast
2/28/08: 1st Path Rpt Dx: IDC 1.8cm tumor & DCIS 2.1cm
2nd Path Rep DFCI - IDC (0.9cm) & DCIS (2.1cm)
Stage 1b/Gr 3; ER+(5%), PR+(2%), HER-2+++
5/5 nodes NEG; Clear Margins
Chemo: AC 4 rnds (1st one 3/31/08) finished 6/2/08
TH (Taxol/Hercepin) 12 weeks (1st one 6/25/08) finished 9/8/08
Herceptin 9 mos (every 3 weeks) finished 6/8/09
BRCA 1/2 NEG
Bio: Age 39, married to James 1999, 2 boys 12 & 10 yo
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08-13-2010, 09:13 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Cordoba, Mexico
Posts: 672
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
Christine, Danielle and Deborah,
Even when I knew Joe was not doing too well, this news comes as a hard shock to me. Joe was definetly our leader not just for the Her2 group, he was a real motivator to work on the Latinas con Cancer de Seno group in which we are still working hard. Both you Christine and Joe have marked my life for ever, you made me see beyond breast cancer, you both show me a world of companionship, love and understanding with and for other 'sisters' with breast cancer. I am sad, very sad, but I am sure he will be watching over us. God bless you girls and I send you a hug with all my love from this part of the world.
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Dx. June 30th, 2006 at age 43
Lumpectomy rt breast
2.2 cm tumor, 13 nodes all negative
ER-PR+,her2+++
6 FAC
32 Rads
Dx. Lung fibrosis due to radiation
Ended 1 year herceptin in March, 2008
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08-13-2010, 10:38 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: "Love never fails."
Posts: 5,808
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
I can not believe this - I'm totally in shock. At 3 am I was still on the computer writing an e-mail to a friend in Southern California. I was just now going to step into the shower when I glanced the title of this thread. Needless to say, my shower was postponed.
Joe has lived an amazing life giving selflessly even when he's waging his own battle against (lung) cancer. Life is indeed so, so 'not fair'...
My deepest condolence to the family (our family) of Joe. What an amazing person! What an amazing life!
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http://www.kevinmd.com/blog/2011/06/doctors-letter-patient-newly-diagnosed-cancer.html
http://www.asco.org/ASCOv2/MultiMedi...=114&trackID=2
NICU 4.4 LB
Erythema Nodosum 85
Life-long Central Neurocytoma 4x5x6.5 cm 23 hrs 62090 semi-coma 10 d PT OT ST 30 d
3 Infertility tmts 99 > 3 u. fibroids > Pills
CN 3 GKRS 52301
IDC 1.2 cm Her2 +++ ER 5% R. Lmptmy SLNB+1 71703 6 FEC 33 R Tamoxifen
Recc IIB 2.5 cm Bi-L Mast 61407 2/9 nds PET
6 TCH Cellulitis - Lymphedema - compression sleeve & glove
H w x 4 MUGA 51 D, J 49 M
Diastasis recti
Tamoxifen B. scan
Irrtbl bowel 1'09
Colonoscopy 313
BRCA1 V1247I
hptc hemangioma
Vertigo
GI - > yogurt
hysterectomy/oophorectomy 011410
Exemestane 25 mg tab 102912 ~ 101016 stopped due to r. hip/l.thigh pain after long walk
DEXA 1/13
1-2016 lesions in liver largest 9mm & 1.3 cm onco. says not cancer.
3-11 Appendectomy - visually O.K., a lot of puss. Final path result - not cancer.
Start Vitamin D3 and Calcium supplement （600mg x2)
10-10 Stopped Exemestane due to r. hip/l.thigh pain OKed by Onco 11-08-2016
7-23-2018 9 mm groundglass nodule within the right lower lobe with indolent behavior. Due to possible adenocarcinoma, Recommend annual surveilence.
7-10-2019 CT to check lung nodule.
1-10-2020 8mm stable nodule on R Lung, two 6mm new ones on L Lung, a possible lymph node involvement in inter fissule.
"I WANT TO BE AN OUTRAGEOUS OLD WOMAN WHO NEVER GETS CALLED AN OLD LADY. I WANT TO GET SHARP EDGED & EARTH COLORED, TILL I FADE AWAY FROM PURE JOY." Irene from Tampa
Advocacy is a passion .. not a pastime - Joe
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08-13-2010, 10:41 PM
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
The Druther family would like in liue of flowers to send donations:
http://her2support.org/about-us/contact-donate. Also service and funeral will be next Tuesday and Wednesday. Danielle will be posting further information. |
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08-23-2010, 08:01 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: melbourne, australia
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
A belated message. i was so sorry to hear of Joe's death. he did such a great job with this site for us HER-2 girls. To Christine and family, my condolences.
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Christine
DX Sept 03 age 40 Stage 2B Grade 3 mastectomy (after 2 prior breast conserving surgeries)
"at least" 2.3 cm 3/12 nodes ER+/PR+ Her2+++
8 FEC. Tamoxifen then Arimidex. Ovaries out.
"late" Herceptin for 2 years (18months after chemo) on HERA trial. finished Herceptin Nov 2007.
Multiple bone mets May 2012 and now liver August 2012.
Abraxne, Herceptin and Zometa.
June 2013 Tykerb, Xeloda and Xgeva
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08-23-2010, 09:56 AM
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Location: Alaska
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
Thank you Danielle. There was no place for HER2's that I know of until Joe and Christine put this all together. Words just aren't adequate to say how much good has come of their effort and vision, or how hard it is for you and for us to go it without Joe as living proof of decency and kindness and caring and leadership.
AlaskaAngel
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Dx 2002 age 51
bc for granny, aunt, cousin, sister, mother.
ER+/PR+/HER2+++, grade 3
IDC 1.9 cm, some DCIS, Stage 1, Grade 3
Lumpectomy, CAFx6 (no blood boosters), IMRT rads, 1 3/4 yr tamoxifen
Rads necrosis
BRCA 1 & 2 negative
Trials: Early detection OVCA; 2004 low-dose testosterone for bc survivors
Diet: Primarily vegetarian organic; metformin (no diabetes), vitamin D3
Exercise: 7 days a week, 1 hr/day
No trastuzumab, no taxane, no AI
NED
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08-13-2010, 10:59 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
I am soooooo sorry, the world is less bright without Joe....I am just stunned..Christine and girls..I can only imagine what a loss this great man will be to your lives...What a sad ..sad time!!
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Dx'd Dec'01 while 6mos preg. with #4. child (30yrsold)Mastectomy/AC chemo/radiation/ Recur:Mar'04 liver mets: 3 taxol/herceptin /liver resection/3 taxol/herceptin. Cured?
Recur: May'05 spine & Hip. New onc
treatment in Mexico Feb'06-Mar-06
back to Mexico June/July '06
Currently on herceptin/Zometa/Femara-recently added navelbine
Switched to arimidex Nov'06
ovaries removed June '07
ca15-3 in May'06 was 102
ca15-3 summer of '07 holding steady at 23!
ca15-3 slowly rising Dec & Jan 36, 38, 41 and Feb was 36
Feb '08 Liver, lung & Brain scan NED... bones are stable with even a couple spots gone. as compared with '06 scans
May '08 ca 15-3 is 55. Treatment is zometa, vinorelbine, herceptin and aromasin.
No signifcant changes.
Feb'09 Started Xeloda with herceptin..no more hormonals
Feb'09-June'09 tumor markers coming down again from 155 to 84
May'09 blood clots in lungs vena cava filter put in..Heparin shots daily for now.
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08-14-2010, 04:11 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 46
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
Like for all the HER2 sisters, it's a loss of a man I've never met and known personally, but always felt close and connected to. He has touched so many lives with the way he was. The very first time I posted on this site, Joe emailed me right away asking where we are receving treatment. He wanted to talk to Roche representatives about programs to finance my mom's treatment. Mom's Drs here also talked to Roche and we eventually ended up receiving 4 Herceptin infusions free of charge.
I've always reminded myself of Joe's signature "Advocacy is a passion". Joe is a person I want to be like. He will be sorely missed!
Sending warm hugs and prayers to Christine and all the family.
P.S. I curse this damn disease!
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08-14-2010, 06:58 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Marengo, IL
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
I consider myself one of the lucky ones from this site who had the privilege of meeting Joe. Loren (my husband) and I attended ASCO this year because of Joe’s treatment. He did not tell many about his fight because he did not want to burden anyone. He was so sure he was going to beat lung cancer and did everything he could to do just that.
I remember talking with him going to ASCO the first part of June. His voice was raw and he was coughing but this attitude was so positive. Just two weeks ago he sounded so much better, stronger and (as always) planning for our sites future. We will never understand all the connections he made in our behalf. He knew everyone in the breast cancer world and they knew him by name. He is irreplaceable.
My heart is so sad for Christine, Danielle, and Debra. He was an amazing man, father and loving husband. I am sure he is wearing his Hawaiian shirts & eating Bavarian Cream Dunkin Donuts while advocating for us on high. His dedication to Christine and to this website they founded - UNFORGETABLE.
Donna
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Donna
Crystal Lake, IL
Diagnosed 8/4/06 at age 54
Lumpectomy 8/30/06
Stage llA, grade 3, ER/PR-, Her2++
1.7 cm tumor, 1+ lymph node out of 9
Completed 4 A/C, & 4 Taxol with Herceptin
36 rads completed 5/16/07
Mammograms, 7/07 clear
fractured ribs in radiated area 10/07
Finished Herceptin 12/27/07
Mammogram,CT,tumor markers 1/08 - small lung nodules in radiated area, repeated tests 3/08 stable
Mammogram,CT ,tumor markers 6/08 stable
NED 2 years!!
3 years !!!
4years!!!!
4 years, 10 months and 8 day NED, calling it 5 years!!!
Official 5 years 8/30/2011
8/31/ 2012 - 6 years!!!!!!
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08-14-2010, 07:21 AM
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Evergreen, Colorado
Posts: 454
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
Christine, Danielle and Debra,
I am so sorry for the your loss of a wonderful husband and father.
There are very few people that have so positively touched the lives of so many. A word of heartfelt appreciation to both Christine and Joe for all of their years of work in support of the HER2 cause.
I am confident that upon Joe's arrival to heaven that he was greated and embraced by all of the HER2 angels that proceeded him. Hoping that thinking about the scene makes you feel the warmth and love. I also know, that have one more advocate up there and am encouraged more than ever that our prayers will be heard.
Love and Appreciation ....Lori
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2007
Oct - Diagnosed - Stage IV 5 c.m. IDC - Left Side er/pr- Her2+++ Node + 2/14 - Single Liver Met Double Mastectomy Nov - Begin T+H 2008
Feb-Complete 6 cycles- T&H- NED
March - Continue - Herceptin Only
April - Rads for 6 weeks
2009
Continue Herceptin - Continue NED
April - Recurrance- 3 cm. Liver Met
May - Cryosurgery
June - November - Abraxane + Herceptin
Aug - PET/CT - CTC = 0 Back to NED
2010
January - Continue NED
July - Recurrance - 3 cm Liver Met CTC=1
August - Cryosurgery #2
August - November Navelbine
November - Back to NED - End Navelbine
2011
Feb - Recur - 4 cm Liver Met - Same Left Lobe
March Surgery it is -Couldn't get a clean margin
July - Confirmed continued liver involvement
August - Begin Herceptin + Tykerb
October - Mixed results from H+T
Add Abraxane + H + T - Nov - April
2012
January PET Scan - It's working!!
April - Back to NED
July - Recurrance
August - Begin TDM-1 Trial (Taxol + TDM-1)
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08-14-2010, 08:47 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Louisville KY
Naples FL
Posts: 665
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
May I add my sorrow for the loss of a wonderful
man, father, husband and leader to us. I am
heartbroken and in shock. Today is a sad day for
a lot of us. Some knew, some did not know about
Joes illness but we all grieve. My prayers to the
family.
patb
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patb
Diagnosed June, 06, Stage I, Grade3, ER+PR- Her2positive, No Nodes. A/C X 4. Radiation 33 with boost, Herceptin every two weeks until Nov.
07, Arimedex for 5 years. Mugas and Echo and chest xRay. Bone scan of whole Body, and Back of Brain and spine MRI.
CT scan of Lungs every six months
due to two small places. December
2009, bone scan due to bone pain.
Follow up test in 2010.
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08-14-2010, 09:54 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: Boise, Idaho
Posts: 758
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
I am absolutely devastated by this news and can only imagine how much more painful it must be for those of you in his family. Through my tears I want you to know how loved he was by many of us who never met him other than here. I will pray that not only Belle but God will hold you in His arms through this time of sorrow and know that surely you will meet him again in heaven.
Love & hugs,
Marlys
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08-14-2010, 12:10 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Franklin, MA
Posts: 131
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
What a loss. I was always amazed at the loving gesture Joe made to Christine by setting up this website. I have learned so much...and have even found myself thinking how blessed I am that my cancer was HER2+. That blessed feeling came from all the knowledge I have gained through this website. Christine and family - my thoughts go out to each and every one of you.
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Diagnosed 10-03-2005 (34 wks pregnant, 38 yrs old)
Lumpectomy Nov-2005. 10/18 Lymph Nodes impacted
Mets to liver, spine & femurs (thus being stage IV right from the get-go)
ER-, PR-, HER2+
Taxol/Herceptin/Zometa started Dec-2005. 11 cycles of Taxol.
Sept-2006: PET/CT scan of mets to liver, spine and femurs - Stable. Activity in R breast & mediastinum (not seen in prior scans).
Navelbine (3 wks on/1 wk off) as of Oct--2006 & continued Herceptin (every 3 wks) & Zometa (every 6 wks)
Jan-2007: PET/CT Scan - Stable. Continued Nav. through March-2007, then Herc./Zom. only after that.
June-2007: PET/CT Scan - activity in mediastinum. Back on Navelbine as of July-2007.
Scanned Quarterly since Oct-2007 - a few small scares, but otherwise stable due to continuing weekly Navelbine, Herceptin and Quarterly Zometa.
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08-14-2010, 03:32 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Posts: 90
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
Dear Christine, Danielle and Debra,
I add my tears and appreciation to those already expressed. We will miss Joe terribly, as of course you will. He was a wonderful, giving person, who made a huge difference to many, many of us. I hope he knew how much he meant to us, and how much we miss him. Peace to you.
- Carol
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Lyons, CO
dx June '05 at age 55
Stage 1, 1.5cm
ER+++, PR--, HER2+++
Lumpectomy, A/C, T/H
Herceptin stopped due to low LVEF (35%)
2010: NED, but continuing major chemo brain injury
www.BeyondChemoBrain.com
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08-14-2010, 04:49 PM
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
Dear Danielle:
I am sending my sympathies as well. I never met your dad and yet he did such a generous service to me and to so many of us. I am very grateful to him.
Love to Christine and the rest of your family.
Linda
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08-14-2010, 06:51 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Naples FL
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
such a shock...what a special man to have touched our lives. Peace to your family at this difficult time. XO Suzan
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 Suzan W.
age 54 at diagnosis
5/05 suspicious mammogram-left breast
5/05 biopsy-invasive lobular carcinoma with LCIS,8mm tumor,stage 1 grade 2, ER+ PR+ Her2+++
6/14/05 bilateral mastectomy, node neg. all scans neg.
Oncotype DX-high risk
8/05-10/05 4 rounds A/C
10/05 -10/06 1 yr. herceptin
arimidex-5 years
2/14/08 started daily self administered injections..FORTEO for severe osteoporosis
7/28/09 BRCA 1 negative BRCA2 POSITIVE
8/17/09 prophylactic salpingo-oophorectomy
10/15/10 last FORTEOinjection
RECLAST infusion(ostoeporosis)
6/14/10 5 year cancerversary!
8/2010-18%increase in bone density!
no further treatments
Oncologist says, "Go do the Happy Dance"
I say,"What a long strange trip its been"
'One day at a time'
6-14-2015. 10 YEAR CANCERVERSARY!
7-16 to 9-16. Extensive (and expensive) dental work done to save teeth. Damage from osteoporosis and chemo and long term bisphosphonate use
6-14-16. 11 YEAR CANCERVERSARY!!
7-20-16 Prolia injection for severe osteoporosis
2 days later, massive hive outbreak. This led to an eventual dx of Chronic Ideopathic Urticaria, an auto-immune disease from HELL.
6-14-17 12 YEAR CANCERVERSARY!!
still suffering from CIU. 4 hospitilizations in the past year
as of today, 10-31-17 in remission from CIU and still, CANCER FREE!!!
6-14-18 13 YEAR CANCERVERSARY!! NED!!
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08-14-2010, 07:18 PM
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
I had the privilege of meeting Joe,Christine and, I believe it was Danielle, at ASCO 2009 and I was so happy to finally meet the amazing Druthers.
I am heartbroken for Christine and her family and for this community which he fashioned with his own hands
Eternally grateful to have met you Joe and for all you have done to keep people like myself alive. I wish we could have returned that favor.
My sincere condolences to all who knew and loved him,
Marcia
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08-14-2010, 07:21 PM
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
For Joe...
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"To laugh often and love much; to win the respect of intelligent persons and the affection of children; to earn the approbation of honest critics and to endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to give of ones self; to leave the world a bit better,whether by a healthy child,a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to have played and laughed with enthusiasm and sung with exaltation; to know that even one life has breathed easier because you have lived - this is to have succeeded." -RALPH WALDO EMERSON "
Marcia (Soccermom)
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08-14-2010, 08:04 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: RHODE ISLAND
(Ed getting me a latte on 2nd Cancerversary Cruise 2008)
'BELIEVE': To accept as true or real, To have faith in, To presume
ALWAYS BELIEVE
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
I had an urge to put some feelings aside and log into Her2 tonight. I am at a loss for words seeing that one of my favorite Angels has passed. I guess there are no words to describe what he meant to Ed and I. So as I sit here with tears in my eyes and I hope that you can fathom the sincere sympathy I express for a man who saved so many of our lives. So sorry to have us all mourn a man who brought us all together. Hugs to us all as we heal from this monumental loss.
My heartfelt sympathy to you Christine and the family he loved more than life itself....Believe51
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9/7/06Husband 50yrs=StageIV IBC/HER2+,BoneMets10/06TaxotereX10,'H'1X wk,Zometa,Tamoxifen4/12/07Last Tax5/18/07Pet=Rapid Cell Activity,No Organ Mets,Lytic Lesions,Degeneration,Some Bone Repair5/07ChemoFail6/01/07Pleural Thoracentisis=Effusions,NoMalignantCells6/19/07+7/2/07DFCI
6/25/07BrainMRI=BrainMets,Many<9mm7/10/07WBR/PelvisRad37.5Gx15&Nutritionist8/19/07T/X9/20/07BrainMRI=2<2mm10/6/07Pet=BoneProgression
10/24/07ChemoFail11/9/07A/Cx10,EndTam12/7/07Faslodex12/10/07Muga7512/13/07BlasticLesions1/7/08BrainMRI=Clear4/1/08Pet=BoneImprovement,
NoProgression,Stable4/7/08BrainPerfect5/16/08Last A/C8/26/08BrainMets=10(<9mm)9/10/08Gamma10/30/08Met=5mm12/19/08Gamma5mets5
12/22/08SpinalMets1/14/09SpinalRads2/17/09BrainMRI=NoNewMets4/20/09BoneScan5/14/09Ixempra6/1/09BrainMRI=NumerousMets6/24/09DFCIw/DrBurstein6/26/09Continue
Ixempra/Faslodex/Zometa~TM now lower7/17/09Stop Ixempra By Choice9/21/09HOSPICE10/16/09Earned His Deserved Wings And Halo=37 Month Fight w/Stage 4 IBC, Her2+++,My Hero!!
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08-14-2010, 08:27 PM
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Re: Joe passed on this evening
I am in total shock. I did not even know he was sick. He was the rock of this board and did so much to reach out and help us when we needed him. I am so sorry for your family..sherry
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Sherry
Diagnosed: December , 2005 at age 44
13+ positive lymph nodes
Stage IV , Her2+, 2 small mets to lungsChemo Started: Jan, 2006
4 months Taxotere, Xeloda, Hercepin
NED since April 2006!!
36 Rads to follow with weekly Herceptin indefinately
8 years NED now
Scans every year
Life is not about avoiding the thunderstorms, it's about learning to dance in the rain!
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