Which Chemo?

Hi girls, well I am back on the round about, seeing Radiation Specialist tomorrow hoping I can have more radiation to the right side of my neck, that side didn't get cooked as much as the left side. After that I am to have more chemo, which one I am asking. I definately don't want to loose my hair again, it isn't that I am vein, I just want to look normal after nearly 6 years of doing these treatment, I still have the wigs and I don't want the steroids either. I don't know why but in Australia they don't go for the knife. I have a clear CT and normal bloods but this lump finally showed up in the ultra sound, so we were able to do the biopsy which came back as having the same cells as the original BC site. We don't even know which lymph is involved because it is deep in my neck but the right side of my neck to touch is a big flat thick lump. So any suggestions.

Love & Hugs Lyn