Advice please-possible bone marrow mets

[Ellie F]

I would really appreciate any advice as am feeling very down and frightened AGAIN. I have been on 3 weekly herceptin alone since August 2009 after completion of 6 rounds of taxotere and herceptin for mets in the contra lateral lymph nodes. Initially my platelets, white cell and red cell count was low but gradually showed an upward trend. Before Christmas my platelets dropped and are now around 110-120. My haemoglobin and white cell count continue to improve which feels very odd.
My onc has now scheduled me for a bone marrow aspirate next week as he thinks I have mets in my bone marrow.
Has anyone had this happen to them??
If mets are confirmed he is planning to give me xeloda and herceptin or xeloda and tykerb if they are still her 2 positive.
I have also just started to get very sore eyes and wondered if this was connected to anything?
Thanks
Ellie