So long for now................................

[Mary Jo]

I will be taking a bit of a reprieve from her2support. The site has become wayyyyyyy more than I can tolerate and before I say things that I will regret I have decided to take a break from here. I know I will check in to read about my "sisters" (can't help it....as I love you) but I can no longer be an active member of site that isn't so much about support anymore but about self healing through positive attitude. ABSOLUTE HOGWASH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For all my sisters out their who believe they are somewhat at fault for the "situation" they are in as far as illness or progression of their illness goes TAKE HEART. It has nothing at all to do with you. ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!

You all know where I stand. I know I don't have to go into any explanations. Life is good...........life can be unfair................our attitudes help us along our journey...................but ultimately God is in control and when it's our time to return to Him we will return to Him.

I'll never forget my dear mom, who died of pancreas cancer at age 47. She suffered incredibly........................she fought the fight..............prayed her heart out................................stayed focused and positive......................................BUT she is now at Home with her Lord. You see!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She was healed. Our ultimate Healing. We will all be healed. Eventually. Whether earthly or Heavenly. It will come.

So all this hogwash on "it's all about you" - don't beat yourselves up those of you who are bothered by this thinking. You're all fighting couragesly and I salute you. Keep up the fight - stay strong - find the blessings in your journey.

Love to all............................................and Peace!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mary Jo