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Old 11-21-2008, 01:39 PM   #1
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Hi guys,

My mom had a CT scan done on Tuesday for spots in her liver. She gets her results today, I'm not too optimistic because i saw that there were two nodules reported on her mri from last year.

I called her and she was in the waiting room waiting for my dad to drive there from work. I can just see her there anxiously waiting by herself and i feel increadibly guilty for not being there for her.

I just left a message on her doctors answering machine. I'm trying really hard to keep on top of her situation and keep myself together and keep my school work together.

I'm trying not to panic, trying to breathe
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Hi i'm Sue. I've been part of the her2support family since 08'. My amazing mother Hong was her 2 stage IV 9 years and bravely earned her wings, I still love this board and continue to her fight. Plz reach out if you want to connect:)
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Old 11-21-2008, 02:46 PM   #2
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We are here, taking a deep breath with you. Keep the faith. Let us know what you find out. Like we said before, it is probably a relief to your mom to know that you are continuing with your school routine. Please don't feel guilty.
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"suspicious area" left breast
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Stage 1, DCIS with microinvasion, 3 mm, mostly removed during the biopsy....
Femara (discontinued 7/07) Resumed 10/07
OncoType score 36 (July 07)
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Began Herceptin alone 10/07
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Old 11-21-2008, 03:39 PM   #3
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Hi Sue! Like Bonnie said, it's important to keep up with your school-work and I'm sure that's what your mom wants. Try not to feel guilty. Your mom knows you wish you could be there. Please know that you and your mom are in our thoughts and prayers.
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Old 11-21-2008, 05:04 PM   #4
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Sue,

You are a wonderful daughter. I'm praying that your mom's scan turns out to be okay.

And as we mentioned before, the next time we have a New York get-together I hope you and your mom will be able to make it.

Joan
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Old 11-21-2008, 07:51 PM   #5
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Keep taking deep breaths and think positive thoughts. You are such a wonderful daughter, I am happy for your mom.
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10/03 Radical Mastectomy 3 cm tumor - 1/17 Nodes Stage II B, Her 2 +++ ER-/PR- 11/03 4 AC 4 Taxol 12/05 Stage IV - Lung met , Bone mets - Carbo, Taxotere, Herceptin 9/06 - 2 cm brain tumor 10/06 - Tumor removal surgery - Herceptin Halted 12/06 gamma knife tumor base.1/07 Navelbine/Herceptin 4/07 Rads to R femur 5/07 Stereotactic - new 2 cm brain tumor 4/07 Start Xeloda 5/07 Tykerb added 7/07 Brain MRI clean 10/07 .055 cm brain met found. 12/07 Stereotactic -1 cm brain tumor Start Tykerb 11/07 Abraxane/Herceptin 5/08 Cisplatin, Gemcitabine/Herceptin 6/08 Stereotactic to 1cm 9/08 Stereotactic repeat (growth). 11/08 Pet Scan Good but new tiny met on L lung/dead Brain surgery (no cancer cells found/scar tissue) 1/09 Chemo restarted 2/09 Pet Scan Bad - R larger very active/active L active lymph nodes both sides of chest MRI- mets slight increase 2/09 Start Doxil/Tykerb Treatment
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Old 11-23-2008, 08:20 PM   #6
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Hi Sue!
You just keep in breathing .... not short shallow breaths, but nice deep ones, ok? And when you are breathing, think about that breath.
Hang in there.
You are such a loving and caring daughter. How lucky your parents are.
Aloha,
Maryanne
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2006:
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Grade: intermediate
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HER2/neu amplified 4.7
ER+/PR+
TOPO II neg
Oncotype dx 20
Bilat mastectomy with DIEP flap reconstruction
oophorectomy

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6 cycles TCH (taxotere, carboplatin, herceptin)
finished 1 yr herceptin 05/07
Arimidex, stopped after almost 1 yr
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