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Old 05-14-2008, 02:58 PM   #1
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hoping this is hopeful

Well gang, today marks 6 years since my diagnosis of stage IV breast cancer. It is also the day before my daughter's 12th birthday. I was given a few months to live back then and I have managed to surprise everyone. I feel as though I need to share this with those of you who worry when reading statistics (I still do), but as my best friend says, "We are our own data points". I feel so blessed and grateful to be here and to be planning birthday business with my girl.

That day, 6 years ago, was the worst I have ever experienced in my whole life and I know how familiar it is to so many of you. I had been diagnosed with stage I two years earlier and really thought I was done. I have been through a lot and will go through more I am sure. I feel battered, bruised and scarred sometimes...well because I am, but I do feel good and am very active. I have never been hospitalized and I am very proud of that, especially given some of the treatments I have had.

I pray every day for all of us, for the researchers and MD's who are helping us and scrambling to save us. I pray every day for those we have lost and have shed many tears and even experienced guilt over survival. I don't want to feel that any more. I want to celebrate every day and wish the same for all of you.

At the risk of sounding like I won an Oscar, I have to thank this site and all of you for the encouragement and the fabulous research and information sharing that I feel has saved so many of us. This resource gets me through those dark nights of the soul and makes me feel loved and cared for. That is a gift and one I have taken over and over again. I need you and thank you from the bottom of my heart.

As Bruce Springsteen sang to me in the car today after yet ANOTHER doctor's appointment, "No retreat, baby, no surrender".
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dx stage I 2/2000*er/pr+; her- per IHC*lumpectomy*4 rounds A/C*30 rads*tamoxifen*dx stage 4 5/2002*huge mets to liver*tiny mets to lungs*stopped tamoxifen*5/02 taxotere/xeloda*her 2 checked with FiSH-her2+++herceptin *2/03 stopped chemo femara w/herceptin*zolodex*04 switched to aromasin w/herceptin*05 high estrogen tx*11/05taxol/carbo*7/06 stopped chemo; megace/herceptin*9/06navelbine/herceptin*5/07tykerb/xeloda great response*4/08 progression in liver; ooph/ faslodex /herceptin
6/08 began Herceptin DM-1
9/08 progression
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Old 05-14-2008, 03:18 PM   #2
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yes Joy is very hopeful for me ....and congratulations ...you are one of my roll model, with much love,Lily
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stage IV mets on liver (5 tumors) 38 year old,
her2+++ and ER+PR+ from32 nodes 4 positives
mastectomy right breast chemo before surgery herceptin/carboplatin/taxotere ,clear and surgery have radiation 20, `& then herceptin and tamoxifen
NED until Aug/07 body only then 'n June 04-06-07 .1 lesion of 1.6 cm on cerebellum ...novalis ,open sugery
5m.m brain met again novalis, 4mm.In the liver. Waiting 2 months now 3 tumors enroll on T-MCC trial start first infusion Nov 5/07 at Dec 17 scan show one tumor despair the 2nd and 3th diminish Doc said great results until March/08 ct scan show progression
03-05-08 start tykerb & xeloda
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Old 05-14-2008, 03:19 PM   #3
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Joy,

Thank you for the encouraging message. I really needed to hear it today.

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Old 05-14-2008, 03:20 PM   #4
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Beautifully said, Joy. You stated much of what I also feel. It will be 7 yrs since my initial diagnosis on June 11. (6/13/01 was my mastectomy).

Continued courage, hope, trust and peace for us all.
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Old 05-14-2008, 03:28 PM   #5
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Very hopeful and JOYFUL! Thanks Joy!
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NOV 2012 - 9 yr anniversary
JULY 2012 - 7 yr anniversary stage IV (of 50...)

Nov'03~ dX stage 2B
Dec'03~
Rt side mastectomy, Her2+, ER/PR+, 10 nodes out, one node positive
Jan'04~
Taxotere/Adria/Cytoxan x 6, NED, no Rads, Tamox. 1 year, Arimadex 3 mo., NED 14 mo.
Sept'05~
micro mets lungs/chest nodes/underarm node, Switched to Aromasin, T/C/H x 7, NED 6 months - Herceptin only
Aug'06~
micro mets chest nodes, & bone spot @ C3 neck, Added Taxol to Herceptin
Feb'07~ Genetic testing, BRCA 1&2 neg

Apr'07~
MRI - two 9mm brain mets & 5 punctates, new left chest met, & small increase of bone spot C3 neck, Stopped Aromasin
May'07~
Started Tykerb/Xeloda, no WBR for now
June'07~
MRI - stable brain mets, no new mets, 9mm spots less enhanced, CA15.3 down 45.5 to 9.3 in 10 wks, Ty/Xel working magic!
Aug'07~
MRI - brain mets shrunk half, NO NEW BRAIN METS!!, TMs stable @ 9.2
Oct'07~
PET/CT & MRI show NED
Apr'08~
scans still show NED in the head, small bone spot on right iliac crest (rear pelvic bone)
Sept'08~
MRI shows activity in brain mets, completed 5 fractions/5 consecutive days of IMRT to zap the pesky buggers
Oct'08~
dropped Xeloda, switched to tri-weekly Herceptin in combo with Tykerb, extend to tri-monthly Zometa infusion
Dec'08~
Brain MRI- 4 spots reduced to punctate size, large spot shrunk by 3mm, CT of torso clear/pelvis spot stable
June'09~
new 3-4mm left cerrebellar spot zapped with IMRT targeted rads
Sept'09~
new 6mm & 1 cm spots in pituitary/optic chiasm area. Rx= 25 days of 3D conformal fractionated targeted IMRT to the tumors.
Oct'09~
25 days of low dose 3D conformal fractionated targeted IMRT to the bone mets spot on rt. iliac crest that have been watching for 2 years. Added daily Aromasin back into treatment regimen.
Apr'10~ Brain MRI clear! But, see new small spot on adrenal gland. Change from Aromasin back to Tamoxifen.
June'10~ Tumor markers (CA15.3) dropped from 37 to 23 after one month on Tamoxifen. Continue to monitor adrenal gland spot. Remain on Tykerb/Herceptin/Tamoxifen.
Nov'10~ Radiate positive mediastinal node that was pressing on recurrent laryngeal nerve, causing paralyzed larynx and a funny voice.
Jan'11~ MRI shows possible activity or perhaps just scar tissue/necrotic increase on 3 previously treated brain spots and a pituitary spot. 5 days of IMRT on 4 spots.
Feb'11~ Enrolled in T-DM1 EAP in Denver, first treatment March 25, 2011.
Mar'11~ Finally started T-DM1 EAP in Denver at Rocky Mountain Cancer Center/Rose on Mar. 25... hallelujah.

"I would rather be anecdotally alive than statistically dead."
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Old 05-14-2008, 03:33 PM   #6
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Happy 6 years anniversary!! Yes, this is hopeful, and it does give me hope!

And, Happy Birthday to your daughter! What a day to celebrate!!

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DCIS 0.3 mm
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Only Femara for 16 more months
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Old 05-14-2008, 03:38 PM   #7
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Hey Joy!
Can you hear the cheers coming from Texas?????
Great news. Happy 6 year anniversary! Hope to celebrate many more with you! ma
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Diag. 12/05 at age 60
Stage II, Grade 3, 4.5 cm primary tumor
ER/PR- Her2 +3 strongly positive
Her2 by FISH 7.7 amplified
vascular invasion
Ki67 20% borderline
Jan - March '06 Taxotere/Adriamycin X 3 to try to shrink tumor - it grew
April '06 Rt Modified Radical Mas, 7 of 9 nodes positive
April - Aug. '06 Herceptin/Taxol/Carboplatin X 8 (dose dense)
Sept - Dec. '06 Navelbine/Herceptin x 8 (dose dense)
Radiation & Herceptin Jan. 22 - March 1, 2007
Finished Herceptin Dec. 10 '08! One extra year.
Port removed August, 2012.
8 1/2 years since diagnosis! 5 1/2 Years NED!
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Old 05-14-2008, 04:35 PM   #8
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Who deserves an Oscar more than you???

Joy, what a great post. encouraging to be sure - along with the bittersweet of living under the shadow and mourning the losses...

and inspiring as always.

Celebrate.

No retreat, baby

No surrender.

You are the best, Joy!
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June 2002 extensive hi grade DCIS (pre-cancer-stage 0, clean sentinal node) Mastectomy/implant - no chemo, rads. "cured?"
9/2004 Diag: Stage IV extensive liver mets (!) ER/PR- Her2+++
10/04-3/05 Weekly Taxol/Carboplatin/Herceptin , complete response!
04/05 - 4/07 Herception every 3 wks, Continue NED
04/07 - recurrence to liver - 2 spots, starting tykerb/avastin trial
06/07 8/07 10/07 Scans show stable, continue on Tykerb/Avastin
01/08 Progression in liver
02/08 Begin (TDM1) trial
08/08 NED! It's Working! Continue on TDM1
02/09 Continue NED
02/10 Continue NED. 5/10 9/10 Scans NED 10/10 Scans NED
12/10 Scans not clear....4/11 Scans suggest progression 6/11 progression confirmed in liver
07/11 - 11/11 Herceptin/Xeloda -not working:(
12/11 Begin MM302 Phase I trial - bust:(
03/12 3rd times the charm? AKT trial

5/12 Scan shows reduction! 7/12 More reduction!!!!
8/12 Whoops...progression...trying for Perjeta/Herceptin (plus some more nasty chemo!)
9/12 Start Perjeta/Herceptin, chemo on hold due to infection/wound in leg, added on cycle 2 &3
11/12 Poops! progression in liver, Stop Perjeta/Taxo/Herc
11/12 Navelbine/Herce[ptin - try for a 3 cycles, no go.
2/13 Gemzar/Carbo/Herceptin - no go.
3/13 TACE procedure
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Old 05-14-2008, 04:37 PM   #9
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Truly joyful news. Congratulations for six years.
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Diagnosed June, 06, Stage I, Grade3, ER+PR- Her2positive, No Nodes. A/C X 4. Radiation 33 with boost, Herceptin every two weeks until Nov.
07, Arimedex for 5 years. Mugas and Echo and chest xRay. Bone scan of whole Body, and Back of Brain and spine MRI.
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due to two small places. December
2009, bone scan due to bone pain.
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Old 05-14-2008, 04:42 PM   #10
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Another Sprinsteen lover! He got me through my chemo treatments on my ipod. Way to go! Here's to many more beautiful years!
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Diag 10/2006-high grade invasive ductal carcinoma- mastectomy L breast
2.5 cm tumor ER/PR pos-Her2+++
4 rounds A/C, 4 rounds Taxol
Herceptin every 3 weeks until Jan. 2008
6/18/07 prophylatic mastectomy R breast
8/2007 started aromasin/stopped arimidex (side effects)
12/07 stopped aromasin due to side effects (now what?)
Finished herceptin 1/8/08
started tamoxifen for 2 years then will switch to femera
allergic to tamoxifen started femera 4/2008
June 20, 2008 portacath removed
Learnig to live life to the fullest!
Stopped Femera due to side effects
July 28, 2008 start trial for breast cancer vaccine
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Old 05-14-2008, 05:11 PM   #11
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Wow, six years. You're amazing. Here's to many, many more years.
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DX 02/01/07
2.5 cm, Er/Pr-, Her2+++
18/20 Nodes
03/07 CT & Bone scan - Clear
AC x 4, Taxol x 4, Added Herceptin
Radiation until 09/07
Herceptin every 3 weeks until 06/08
01/10/08 local recurrence -IBC
01/28/08 CT & Brain MRI - clear
02/08 - Navelbine & Herceptin
05/08 -MRM
05/08 - Gemzar & Herceptin - didn't work
09/08 - Hyperthermia rads
03/09 - Tykerb/Xeloda
05/10 - Tram flap to fix wound
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Old 05-14-2008, 05:23 PM   #12
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Joy,your post does bring hope and joy to many. You are an inspiration and you have gone through this bc ordeal with grace.

Congratulations on your 6th anniversary. I wish you many more happy anniversaries!

Hugs,
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Old 05-14-2008, 05:30 PM   #13
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And the Oscar goes to Joy!! Great news!! And at the risk of sounding like a commercial "you deserve a break today"
All my love, Nana Karen
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Old 05-14-2008, 05:33 PM   #14
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Joy - Thank you! I needed that today.
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Diag. 11/05 at age 40 triple positive
3.8 cm tumor and 9 mm tumor
Stage IIb/SN positive(no other nodes)Grade 3
Bilat. mastect. 12/05 (Rt.prophylactic) followed with AC/taxol/Herceptin/tamoxifen then switched to arimidex after hysterectomy in 12/06. August 07 switched to Aromasin due to severe jt. pain from Arimidex. Nov. 2011 No more meds and NED!
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Old 05-14-2008, 05:57 PM   #15
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Joy,
I was so happy to read your post! Many, many more happy anniversaries and birthdays are in your future!

Love,
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DCIS, Inv. Duct. Car. 3 cm
Positive lymph node biopsy
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Carboplatin/Taxotere/Herceptin
10-1-07 -- 1-16-08
Herceptin every 3 weeks until 9/24/08
Lump. and node dissection 2-12-08
BRCA1 and 2 negative
30 rads finished 4-23-08
oophorectomy 5-6-08
Femara started 5/25/08
Zometa for osteoporosis every 6 mo. started 9-24-08

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Old 05-14-2008, 06:00 PM   #16
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Joy,
Congratulations to you and happy birthday to your daughter!! Thank you for taking the time to write such a beautiful and inspirational post. Warmest wishes,
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Old 05-14-2008, 06:11 PM   #17
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Oh......so glad I visited the site tonight so I could see my favorite "joy"ful post. My heart is feeling such "joy" from reading your post.

Happy 6 years to you and Happy 12 years to your daughter. Thanking God for you and your 6 years right now.

Hugs toyou Joy,

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Dx. 6/24/05 age 45 Right Breast IDC
ER/PR. Neg., - Her2+++
RB Mast. - 7/28/05 - 4 cm. tumor
Margins clear - 1 microscopic cell 1 sent. node
No Vasucular Invasion
4 DD A/C - 4 DD Taxol & Herceptin
1 full year of Herceptin received every 3 weeks
28 rads
prophylactic Mast. 3/2/06

17 Years NED

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Old 05-14-2008, 06:23 PM   #18
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Very JOYFUL dear Joy!! Hoping and praying for many many more cancerversaries for you!!

all the best
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1.7 cm and 1.0 cm.
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MRM Dec.18/06
3 x FEC, 3 x Taxotere
Herceptin - every 3 weeks for a year, finished May 8/08

Tamoxifen - 2 1/2 years
Femara - Jan. 1, 2010 - July 18, 2012
BRCA1/BRCA2 Negative
Dignosed 10/16/06, age 48 , premenopausal
Mild lymphedema diagnosed June 2009 - breast surgeon and lymph. therapist think it's completely reversible - hope so.
Reclast infusion January 2012
Oopherectomy October 2013
15 Years NED!!
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Old 05-14-2008, 06:32 PM   #19
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Joy, Congratulations on your 6th anniversary! You're an inspiration. It gives me hope and something to look forward to. Best, Joan
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Old 05-14-2008, 08:24 PM   #20
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I am glad that you were your own data point Congratulations.
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