[Jackie07]

Someone - most likely her oncologist - need to look at all the meds and evaluate them. Unless she's diabetic or with other chronic illnesses, there is no reason for her to be having that many 'bottles' of meds for breast cancer treatment.

Sounded to me that she might benefit from getting some counseling from a professional. Someone who is well trained in dealing with cancer patients and related issues. A counselor knows how to 'listen' and allow the patient to get their anxiety 'out'.

But usually a close friend or close relative who has good relationship with her will have similar or even better result than going to a doctor's office. Is there a local cancer support group available? What about her family doctor? Oncologists sometimes can be hard to communicate with.

My Mother became very irrational when she was faced with the treatment of Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma 11 years ago. It took a lot of persuation (including my flying a couple of thousands miles to see her at home) to get her to have the surgery. She went through chemo and radiation and is now a healthy 86-year-old.

Be sure to let your Mom know that Her2 breast cancer is now the most treatable one because of Herceptin. Discard any statistic you might find that is dated before 2007 when Herceptin became widely available. All the women on this Board are testamonies to the effectiveness of the treatment. Ask your Mom to join us (or at least glance through the messages on the Board.) Many of us have survived; she can, too.

ps. Cook some plain rice soup with just water and rice and perhaps some sweet patato cubes. Starch can be partially absorbed by our saliver, thus easier on our stomach. The soup part will also provide much needed fluid. All other food (bread, meat, fruit...etc) can be made into a 'shake' and drink down slowly. Good nutrition provides energy we need to fight the cancer. Be sure to let her know we are all her sisters in this battle.