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Sherryg683 · 08-24-2007, 10:14 PM

Joy, I can relate to the conflict you are having as to whether to tell him your stage now. Whenever I meet someone and they find out about my cancer, I feel compelled to tell them I'm stage IV...like they even care. I agree with the advise of meeting him, see how it goes and then if it progresses, then you should tell him. Heck, he may not even appeal to YOU after a few meetings. I can understand why you are getting so many emails, you are absolutely adorable and you deserve a good guy. ..sherryg

08-24-2007, 10:14 PM	#17
Sherryg683 Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 1,014	Joy, I can relate to the conflict you are having as to whether to tell him your stage now. Whenever I meet someone and they find out about my cancer, I feel compelled to tell them I'm stage IV...like they even care. I agree with the advise of meeting him, see how it goes and then if it progresses, then you should tell him. Heck, he may not even appeal to YOU after a few meetings. I can understand why you are getting so many emails, you are absolutely adorable and you deserve a good guy. ..sherryg __________________ Sherry Diagnosed: December , 2005 at age 44 13+ positive lymph nodes Stage IV , Her2+, 2 small mets to lungsChemo Started: Jan, 2006 4 months Taxotere, Xeloda, Hercepin NED since April 2006!! 36 Rads to follow with weekly Herceptin indefinately 8 years NED now Scans every year Life is not about avoiding the thunderstorms, it's about learning to dance in the rain!