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Old 01-20-2010, 03:44 PM   #49
chrisy
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Re: Irene From Tampa

Here is John's post on Caringbridge:

Dearest Family...
Dearest Friends...
Dearest Loved Ones...

I'm heartbroken to bear you this news...but Irene's battle is over.

Dr. George met with Irene, myself and the girls this afternoon...to graciously and with dignity let us know the war couldnt go on.

Irene's liver simply is no longer up to the task.
He recommended discontinuing care.

We're uncertain...actually doubt...if Irene understood the import of Dr. Georges words. She showed no reaction.

So...its over.

In recent times I'd been told that Irene & I had done just about everything that possibly could have been done in this long engagement. I know Irene had...and I struggled to mirror that effort in her abscence. I didnt want any stone left unturned...any possibility left unexplored. In the end, we simply ran out of stones.

In coming days we'll explore ways of bringing Irene back home...back to our home...where she belongs and where will always be part of. I want her care to be dignified and loving. She deserves nothing less - much, much more.

Two things please........

In recent days Irene was searching for the words to some prayer....and had the phrase "Jesus stay with me..." in her mind...but couldnt construct or recall the remainder.
Does anyone know if this truly is part of a prayer? I do not. If so, please be so kind to let me know.

Also - Friday will be Irene's 64th birthday. Come. Be with her. Please.

I do have to go...my heart is out of words.
Please be well and please go well.


Love to all - John


John, I have no words - only continued prayers. I don't know the specific prayer Irene is seeking - Jesus stay with me - but I do know that it will be so.

Please give Irene my love,
Chris
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June 2002 extensive hi grade DCIS (pre-cancer-stage 0, clean sentinal node) Mastectomy/implant - no chemo, rads. "cured?"
9/2004 Diag: Stage IV extensive liver mets (!) ER/PR- Her2+++
10/04-3/05 Weekly Taxol/Carboplatin/Herceptin , complete response!
04/05 - 4/07 Herception every 3 wks, Continue NED
04/07 - recurrence to liver - 2 spots, starting tykerb/avastin trial
06/07 8/07 10/07 Scans show stable, continue on Tykerb/Avastin
01/08 Progression in liver
02/08 Begin (TDM1) trial
08/08 NED! It's Working! Continue on TDM1
02/09 Continue NED
02/10 Continue NED. 5/10 9/10 Scans NED 10/10 Scans NED
12/10 Scans not clear....4/11 Scans suggest progression 6/11 progression confirmed in liver
07/11 - 11/11 Herceptin/Xeloda -not working:(
12/11 Begin MM302 Phase I trial - bust:(
03/12 3rd times the charm? AKT trial

5/12 Scan shows reduction! 7/12 More reduction!!!!
8/12 Whoops...progression...trying for Perjeta/Herceptin (plus some more nasty chemo!)
9/12 Start Perjeta/Herceptin, chemo on hold due to infection/wound in leg, added on cycle 2 &3
11/12 Poops! progression in liver, Stop Perjeta/Taxo/Herc
11/12 Navelbine/Herce[ptin - try for a 3 cycles, no go.
2/13 Gemzar/Carbo/Herceptin - no go.
3/13 TACE procedure
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