[harrie]

Re: Pinkgirls comment on "can the mean voice ever be correct"
I personally do not feel it is a matter of being correct or not correct because it is just a perspective. The mean voice is there because of yrs of experiences and reactions to life situations. You notice kids, being so young and lacking of the life experiences have a much more undeveloped ego then adults. I think that is why they are so accepting and trusting. They dont have as many "issues" in their history to bring out warnings to their brain such as "oh no...here we go AGAIN....i cant....i better not....i sure hope not...."
It can be really hard to shut the voice of that mean voice out. Sometimes it just seems to be so constant and nagging, and convincing. If you are not aware of it and let it "do its thing", your whole body can eventually respond. Reason for the chronic clenching/ grinding...