Michele,
I don't have any words of wisdom-- I've only been married two years myself. I just felt such a heavy heart reading your post and wanted to wish you a Happy Anniversary. Twenty years is too many to let things just drift away. I hope you can take all the tenancity that you've shown through your diagnosis and treatment and find a way, with your husband, to turn the ship around.
Jen
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dx 4/05 @ 34 y.o.
Stage IIIC, ER+ (90%)/PR+ (95%)/HER2+ (IHC 3+)
lumpectomy-- 2.5 cm 15+/37 nodes
(IVF in between surgery and chemo)
tx dd A/C, followed by dd Taxol & Herceptin
30 rads (or was it 35?)
Finished Herceptin on 7/24/06
Tamox
livingcured.blogspot.com
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