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Old 08-24-2012, 02:18 PM   #19
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Re: I couldn't make this up if I tried

Since you've had Herceptin for so long (a year?), I agree with your doctor that it's doubtful the preservative was the problem. Have you been given shots to increase your blood counts? I remember how those shots gave me certain symptoms...

We all develop 'communcation problems' with our oncologist at one time or another. Like every relationship in our life, 'retreat' or 'blame the other side' is usually not the best solution.

I'm sure your doctor will respect your opinion/complaint more after this 'incident'. He owes you one - which can be a good 'weapon' for you to get what you need in the future...

Most oncologists are the top in their profession as physicians. They have strong egos. Give him some compliment next time before making your requests/complaints, he might be more likely to listen to you.

My oncologist is a very patient person with top trainings/experiences. But even a 'very' nice person like me had driven him 'crazy' (= got him upset with my requests a couple of times.
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