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Old 12-07-2013, 10:28 PM   #4
Jackie07
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Re: Messed up emotionally

I am childless...

I have had cancer ...

I did not complete the (one year Herceptin) treatment ...

Allow yourself to be happy (that you have a child and you have completed your cancer treatment) while allowing your friend to be happy (that she doesn't have cancer even though she doesn't have a child - 'Childless'/nuliparity is known to be one of the risk factors of breast cancer.)

Here's a link of a new test that can detect breast cancer 10 years before development: http://unspokencures.com/2013/12/04/...e-development/ You probably have had the BRCA genes test done since you've been diagnosed with breast cancer at a fairly young age. And you are probably famiiar with the coalition site: http://www.youngsurvival.org/ Please share the information with your friend as you are in the same age group.

Always focus on the 'here and now'. Treasure what we have/have achieved and celebrate every day.
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