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Jackie07 · 02-05-2010, 05:05 AM

Just found this thread. Thanks to this wonderful Board, some crucial evidence of hubby's feelings is preserved here.

He's been very frustrated with me - a seemingly logical, reasonable person who has turned into a pretty 'bad' wife... He has said some hurtful things to me - because I had hurt his feelings, according to him.

A junior high classmate had told me how difficult he thought it would be if he were in hubby's shoes having to live with a wife who's having surgery after surgeries... Oldest Brother also thought hubby should be commended for having stayed with me for these many years (I will be a 20-year brain tumor survivor in mid June.)

And to think hubby is only 4 years younger than John Edwards, the previous presidential hopeful who had consealed his relationship with another woman and denied to be the father of the child he had had with her...

Guess for those of us who never have had a 'normal' life, we shall treasure just 'life'. As Doc Holiday had told Wyatt Earp in 'Tombstone': "Wyatt, there's no normal life, there's just 'life'."

And what a life it is!

02-05-2010, 05:05 AM	#4
Jackie07 Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: "Love never fails." Posts: 5,808	Re: Roller-coaster Just found this thread. Thanks to this wonderful Board, some crucial evidence of hubby's feelings is preserved here. He's been very frustrated with me - a seemingly logical, reasonable person who has turned into a pretty 'bad' wife... He has said some hurtful things to me - because I had hurt his feelings, according to him. A junior high classmate had told me how difficult he thought it would be if he were in hubby's shoes having to live with a wife who's having surgery after surgeries... Oldest Brother also thought hubby should be commended for having stayed with me for these many years (I will be a 20-year brain tumor survivor in mid June.) And to think hubby is only 4 years younger than John Edwards, the previous presidential hopeful who had consealed his relationship with another woman and denied to be the father of the child he had had with her... Guess for those of us who never have had a 'normal' life, we shall treasure just 'life'. As Doc Holiday had told Wyatt Earp in 'Tombstone': "Wyatt, there's no normal life, there's just 'life'." And what a life it is! __________________ Jackie07 http://www.kevinmd.com/blog/2011/06/doctors-letter-patient-newly-diagnosed-cancer.html http://www.asco.org/ASCOv2/MultiMedi...=114&trackID=2 NICU 4.4 LB Erythema Nodosum 85 Life-long Central Neurocytoma 4x5x6.5 cm 23 hrs 62090 semi-coma 10 d PT OT ST 30 d 3 Infertility tmts 99 > 3 u. fibroids > Pills CN 3 GKRS 52301 IDC 1.2 cm Her2 +++ ER 5% R. Lmptmy SLNB+1 71703 6 FEC 33 R Tamoxifen Recc IIB 2.5 cm Bi-L Mast 61407 2/9 nds PET 6 TCH Cellulitis - Lymphedema - compression sleeve & glove H w x 4 MUGA 51 D, J 49 M Diastasis recti Tamoxifen B. scan Irrtbl bowel 1'09 Colonoscopy 313 BRCA1 V1247I hptc hemangioma Vertigo GI - > yogurt hysterectomy/oophorectomy 011410 Exemestane 25 mg tab 102912 ~ 101016 stopped due to r. hip/l.thigh pain after long walk DEXA 1/13 1-2016 lesions in liver largest 9mm & 1.3 cm onco. says not cancer. 3-11 Appendectomy - visually O.K., a lot of puss. Final path result - not cancer. Start Vitamin D3 and Calcium supplement （600mg x2) 10-10 Stopped Exemestane due to r. hip/l.thigh pain OKed by Onco 11-08-2016 7-23-2018 9 mm groundglass nodule within the right lower lobe with indolent behavior. Due to possible adenocarcinoma, Recommend annual surveilence. 7-10-2019 CT to check lung nodule. 1-10-2020 8mm stable nodule on R Lung, two 6mm new ones on L Lung, a possible lymph node involvement in inter fissule. "I WANT TO BE AN OUTRAGEOUS OLD WOMAN WHO NEVER GETS CALLED AN OLD LADY. I WANT TO GET SHARP EDGED & EARTH COLORED, TILL I FADE AWAY FROM PURE JOY." Irene from Tampa Advocacy is a passion .. not a pastime - Joe Last edited by Jackie07; 02-05-2010 at 05:23 AM..