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Old 05-30-2011, 10:48 AM   #53
BonnieR
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Re: I'm Taking Care of My Mom

Merry, you were at the end of your rope last time you posted and we are glad to help you hold on!
As has been said before, maybe you just need to set some boundaries there and say how it has to be. That the help is for YOU and you can't keep on without it. That you need some respite. Period!
Your brother is a whole other story. I suppose he does not consider sobriety an option?
I always say "keep the faith" and I hope you will! It is not always going to be like this and you will get through it.
PS: Zoloft will not necessarily turn you into a zombie! But it sure might take the edge off. Why not try something for stress?
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Post menopause
May 2007 Core biopsy, Rt breast
ER+, Pr-, HER2 +++, Grade 3
Ki-67: 90%
"suspicious area" left breast
Bilateral mastectomy, (NED on left) May 2007
Sentinel Node Neg
Stage 1, DCIS with microinvasion, 3 mm, mostly removed during the biopsy....
Femara (discontinued 7/07) Resumed 10/07
OncoType score 36 (July 07)
Began THC 7/26/07 (d/c taxol and carboplatin 10/07)
Began Herceptin alone 10/07
Finished Herceptin July /08
D/C Femara 4/10 (joint pain/trigger thumb!)
5/10 mistakenly dx with lung cancer. Middle rt lobe removed!
Aromasin started 5/10

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