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Moni,

By your post are you saying that she has not talked to an oncologist at all? I would assume that before she had the chemo she would have had to talk to the onc in order to get things set up. I know that my surgeon sent me to an oncologist as soon as the biopsy came back positive. I then had an appointment with the oncologist and we talked about what treatment plans we could do. My onc then got my surgeon on the phone with me there and that is when we as a team decided that I would hae neoadjunct chemo (before surgery) to try and shrink the tumor. Her oncologist should be the doctor that sits down and explains everything to her. Perhaps I just mis-read your post. If I did I can blame it on chemo brain (which is a real thing).