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Lien · 05-24-2009, 07:39 AM

It's good to hear she seems to be doing better. May it be a turnaround point and may she be heading for better health allover.

I'm wondering, though: Is she scared that this might be end stage, or is she convinced that it is? I remember when my Mom was dealing with cancer, she just knew the end was near and no-one believed her. They kept telling her to fight and be strong, and she felt very lonely because nobody would listen to her. Being scared is understandable in her situation, and it warrants cheering up and praying for her to get better and everything else we can come up with. But I'd hate to ignore what she is feeling deep down inside. It is hard, because none of us wants to lose her. She is our Joy and she is part of the fabric of this site and of us.

Love

Jacqueline

05-24-2009, 07:39 AM	#13
Lien Senior Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Haarlem, the Netherlands Posts: 835	It's good to hear she seems to be doing better. May it be a turnaround point and may she be heading for better health allover. I'm wondering, though: Is she scared that this might be end stage, or is she convinced that it is? I remember when my Mom was dealing with cancer, she just knew the end was near and no-one believed her. They kept telling her to fight and be strong, and she felt very lonely because nobody would listen to her. Being scared is understandable in her situation, and it warrants cheering up and praying for her to get better and everything else we can come up with. But I'd hate to ignore what she is feeling deep down inside. It is hard, because none of us wants to lose her. She is our Joy and she is part of the fabric of this site and of us. Love Jacqueline __________________ Diagnosed age 44, January 2004, 0.7 cm IDC & DCIS. Stage 1, grade 3, ER/PR pos. HER2 pos. clear margins, no nodes. SNB. 35 rads. On Zoladex and Armidex since Dec. 2004. Stopped Zoladex/Arimidex sept 2009 Still taking mistletoe shots (CAM therapy) Doing fine.