Hi Preston -
I'm another guy with breast cancer. I was diagnosed in 1996, had a modified radical mastectomy and then chemo. (I wasn't tested for her2 back then). I've done well since my treatment and, in fact, have worked for the Ithaca Breast Cancer Alliance -- a local breast cancer support organization -- for more than 5 years.
I've pulled together a few links on male breast cancer on our website:
http://www.ibca.net/online_resources...ncer_sites.php
Know that you aren't alone.
Bob Riter
Ithaca, NY