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Old 08-17-2013, 05:25 AM   #19
NEDenise
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Re: How many progress to Stage IV?

VballMom and Debbie,
WELL SAID! V - I especially find #6 on your list to be infuriating! The mammogram I had 4 months prior to my finding a nearly 4 cm mass and a dozen "bad" nodes... found nothing! By contrast, a friend's mammogram found a tiny mass but sadly her BC had already spread to her bones.

I'm not saying early detection is bad...
but the message that it saves lives is overstated, at best.
Research is what will save lives!
Research, and new treatments for metastatic disease.
Nobody, absolutely NOBODY dies of breast cancer that's still in their breast. (see #1 above)

I absolutely believe that immunology is going to be key to curing metastatic disease...
but we're all but shut out of the research being done.
I sometimes feel like the "vaccine crowd" of researchers have abandoned all hope of helping those of us with metastatic disease.

I'm not saying they're wrong to do the research the way they are...
I'm just expressing sadness and frustration at being left out - written off even...
as though it's too late for me anyhow.
(NEWSFLASH!! No it isn't! I'm hoping to be here a long time yet!!)

Well... that turned into a bit of a tirade! Sorry 'bout that.
Love to all!
Denise

PS - sisters who are vaccine pioneers... THANKS for doing what I can't do, to help that research along!
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