[Jean]

Hi Rhonda,

Oh little boys....
I'll bet Tony never even thought of the consequences when he was having
fun throwing those rocks. It is hard even for some adults to factor in consequences. I would not make the punishment too long or the whole
matter will begin to loose the hi-light of the issue. If he can understand
the importance of thinking something through a bit before hand you have made a major impact. A big part of this is not just the punishment but having him understand his actions have reactions. Let's face it he will never be able to pay for the damage. He needs to loose something that means a lot to him.
Do you have a special day of the week like Sat. where you take him to movies
etc. things like that? If so that is cancelled - chores are good and should be
included but giving up a pleasure has an impact. All special treats and favorite games are forfeited. I think he should write a letter to the owner of the car so he understands that he must face up to the people he has caused damage to. I would have him deliver the letter in person. Don't worry so much about the other kids as who knows the value of the other parents. I have often discovered when raising my son - that everyone else's child was perfect and mine was the devil. Sad for them as my son has grown into a fine young man and others have fallen hard on the road while growing up.

Your such a great Mom Rhonda, you will make the perfect choice to
impact him. Just think of something he loves and remove it for about
a week or two...remember he is six and two weeks is a real long time
at that age.

Hugs,
Jean