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Old 08-28-2009, 07:57 AM   #31
Colleens_Husband
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Re: ~This Sounds So Terrible Of Me, Please Forgive Me

Marie:

What you said is nothing but compassionate. I don't think anyone wants to have a loved one suffer. He is the Mighty Oak after all and that is how he should be thought of and remembered.

Marie, I think it is time that you get some help for yourself. You have done a remarkable job caring for Ed, and as a fellow caregiver, I am amazed at your strength and courage, and I hope I if I were in your shoes, I could meet your incredibly high standards. But you are only a human and you need care and maintenance as well. I think you may want to explore talking to a cancer counseling center. They may be able to help you take care of yourself so you can continue providing such excellent care to Ed.

Marie, please know that you are in our hearts and in our prayers. I know you are on a long and difficult journey, but it is a journey you will have the strength and courage to complete. Marie, please take excellent care of yourself.

Lee
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This happened to Colleen:

Diagnosed in September 2007
ER-/PR-/HER2 Neu+++ 2.1 cm x .9 cm spicluted tumor with three fingers, Stage 2B
Sentinal node biopsy and lymph node removal with 3/18 positive in October 2007
4 TAC infusions
lumpectomy March 2008, bad margins
Re-excision on June 3rd, 2008 with clean margins
Fitted for compression sleeve July 16, 2008
Started the first of two TCH infusions August 14, 2008
Done with chemo and now a member of the blue dot club 9/17/08
Starting radiation October 1, 2008
life is still on hold
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