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For a long while, I have been writing for my wife Ann because I can read the medicl journals better than her, although she is a pharmacist. The current subject is very personal but deserves an open airing from both partners' viewpoints.
I truly love my wife Ann and always accompanied her to all medical appts. I took responsibility in deciding for her to have mastectomy. Therefore, our devotion to each other never had changed, regardless the physical scar that is so obvious to us both. Our relationship in bedroom continues the same. She still huddles in my arms every night.
The important element is the true love and care, which will transcend any handicaps whether physical or emotional.
Of course, no one ever wants to go through the tough journey most of the women in this room have been through. Since the decision of how to tackle the problem was made by both of us, we must face all problems together as a team.
Ann (her husband).
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