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Hi kat. I too was raised and taught by the nuns. I understand your delima. Things sound really unbearable. My heart goes out to you. My first time around with bc my husband asked for a seperation. My reply , "couldn't you wait until I was finished Chemo to spring this on me." He waited. I felt like I should have said OK. The long and short of it was I went for therapy - to see what was happening - how to deal with everything - find out how I feel - what I want - what is best for me. It is best thing I ever did for myself. Find someone you can talk to easily and someone who listens carefully hearing what you say and not what they think. I am very fortunate to have found someone who is able to do this. Things will work out for the best. And that part the nuns said about praying it does help.
Sending warm thoughts, hugs and prayers
Kathy A
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