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Faith in Him · 10-31-2008, 09:47 AM

This is to all of you wonderful caregivers out there. Boy, do you have a tough job.

Anyhow, I have a quick question for you. I have a need to discuss with hubby the what ifs. It makes me feel that we have a plan for the children should something happen (I could be hit by a bus, right?). Even down to how the insurance money could be spent. Gosh, this is awful but true. The problem is, while I seem to feel better after these talks, Hubby is hurt and sad. Should I just knock it off?

Thanks for your wisdom.

Tonya

10-31-2008, 09:47 AM	#1
Faith in Him Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Northern California Posts: 764	The what ifs This is to all of you wonderful caregivers out there. Boy, do you have a tough job. Anyhow, I have a quick question for you. I have a need to discuss with hubby the what ifs. It makes me feel that we have a plan for the children should something happen (I could be hit by a bus, right?). Even down to how the insurance money could be spent. Gosh, this is awful but true. The problem is, while I seem to feel better after these talks, Hubby is hurt and sad. Should I just knock it off? Thanks for your wisdom. Tonya __________________ DX 02/01/07 2.5 cm, Er/Pr-, Her2+++ 18/20 Nodes 03/07 CT & Bone scan - Clear AC x 4, Taxol x 4, Added Herceptin Radiation until 09/07 Herceptin every 3 weeks until 06/08 01/10/08 local recurrence -IBC 01/28/08 CT & Brain MRI - clear 02/08 - Navelbine & Herceptin 05/08 -MRM 05/08 - Gemzar & Herceptin - didn't work 09/08 - Hyperthermia rads 03/09 - Tykerb/Xeloda 05/10 - Tram flap to fix wound Last edited by Faith in Him; 01-10-2009 at 03:58 PM..