[sarah]

Be patient and kind to yourself. you'll find a way to deal with things - lists or whatever. don't stress that things aren't the way they used to be just enjoy being here with your family. I hope those around you understand that you may forget things and help. I've always been a bit flakey but now.....! but I've also always made lists. and of course calendars are a must!! on line ones as well as off line ones!!!
take care
health and happiness
love sarah