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Old 05-16-2012, 12:29 PM   #2
NanaJoni
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Re: Men's health article for caregivers

I worried a lot (and still do) about my husband's health when I was doing treatment. He's an extremely caring person and literally forced me to stay alive a few times. He also was an air traffic controller and then tower manager in his 37 year career with the FAA so stressful environments have always been part of his daily life. During my treatment months he did usually do a few stress reliever things - going to the driving range, playing golf with our son while I was getting chemo, working in the yard, etc. In spite of all that, in one of our more serious discussions I told him I would rather be the one with the cancer than the one watching someone I love have cancer. It's such a mean beast and effects the entire circle of family and friends.
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3/01/10: found lump in rt.breast
3/12/10: mammogram/ultrasnd/biopsy-invasive bc & DCIS; 2 tumors (2cm er-/pr-/HER2-& 1.8 cm er-/pr-/HER2+); grade 3;poorly differentiated
3/24/10:sent.node biopsy clear
3/31/10:bi-lateral mx.;atypical ductal hyperplasia-lft side
4/21/10:wound revision-infection/scarring 4/28/10:seromas both sides
5/21/10:port installed,TCH chemo (6 x 3 wks); Herc,-1yr; 33 rad tx after chemo
07/2010: port not working-2nd port didnt'work;3rd port opposite side.
07/2010: 2 weeks after 3rd port surgery, threw 3 pulm. emboli-IVC filter installed; warfarin
08/2010: hospitalizations w/3 of chemos; decision to stop after 4th-on to radiation in Oct 2010;Herc cont.
12/03/2010 - finished 33 rads Hooray!! cont. Herc. every 3 wks
4/2011 - pneumonia ??? Nope-radiation pneumonitis. No more Herc.
5/2011 - NED!!! port out.
8/2011 - clean PET & CT scans.Still NED
7/2012 - Still NED/very blessed.
2/2013 - 6 mos checkup-all clear. CA2729 down frm 13 to 11.
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