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Old 04-01-2015, 12:40 PM   #16
StephN
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Re: boyfriend d/x with stage 4 cancer

Dear Valerie -
I share the shock and extreme letdown of an advanced cancer re-entering your life. I saw your post but was at my mother's across the state, where I often am these days.

One thing I can speak to is mets to the liver. My BC went to my liver big time, but I am fortunate that the drug combo worked, finally leaving only 3 small areas of scar, and then no evidence there ever were any tumors. The liver will regenerate, and I am hoping by now your dear man will have begun treatment or had his surgery.

With breast cancer these days chemo is often given prior to surgery, but I have no idea if they do the same for other cancers where chemo is indicated.

PS - Be aware that non-members may view posts, but not reply. So many of those early readers could have been among the large number of non-members who view this site.
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MY STORY SO FAR ~~~~
Found suspicious lump 9/2000
Lumpectomy, then node dissection and port placement
Stage IIB, 8 pos nodes of 18, Grade 3, ER & PR -
Adriamycin 12 weekly, taxotere 4 rounds
36 rads - very little burning
3 mos after rads liver full of tumors, Stage IV Jan 2002, one spot on sternum
Weekly Taxol, Navelbine, Herceptin for 27 rounds to NED!
2003 & 2004 no active disease - 3 weekly Herceptin + Zometa
Jan 2005 two mets to brain - Gamma Knife on Jan 18
All clear until treated cerebellum spot showing activity on Jan 2006 brain MRI & brain PET
Brain surgery on Feb 9, 2006 - no cancer, 100% radiation necrosis - tumor was still dying
Continue as NED while on Herceptin & quarterly Zometa
Fall-2006 - off Zometa - watching one small brain spot (scar?)
2007 - spot/scar in brain stable - finished anticoagulation therapy for clot along my port-a-catheter - 3 angioplasties to unblock vena cava
2008 - Brain and body still NED! Port removed and scans in Dec.
Dec 2008 - stop Herceptin - Vaccine Trial at U of W begun in Oct. of 2011
STILL NED everywhere in Feb 2014 - on wing & prayer
7/14 - Started twice yearly Zometa for my bones
Jan. 2015 checkup still shows NED
2015 Neuropathy in feet - otherwise all OK - still NED.
Same news for 2016 and all of 2017.
Nov of 2017 - had small skin cancer removed from my face. Will have Zometa end of Jan. 2018.
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