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Old 10-06-2012, 03:50 PM   #12
rhondalea
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Re: How do you feel about a Memorial/Tribute Forum?

If you were responding to what I wrote, Jackie, I need to clarify. It's not a copyright/permissions issue with this site, but with the individual posters whose permission would be required to copy their posts to the memorial site. The reference to FB...well, FB has set itself up to do pretty much anything it likes with the data it receives from users, which is how people find their words and work being used for advertising purposes in strange places. (Consider the guy who found a photo from his wife's wall being used on a dating site.) Unfortunately (for this purpose), the terms of use here are not so broad. There's an obvious intent to protect the privacy of the posters here, so we have not all agreed at the outset to have our posts and information used for other purposes.

Anyway, if part of the desire is to preserve the posts of the absent, it cannot be done without permission from the next of kin (actually, I suppose it would need to be the executor or administrator of the estate). Off the top of my head, the best that could be managed would be links to individual posts on this site (vs. copying entire posts from this site to the new site).

I haven't thought this through, because my brain isn't working very well right now. There may well be a simple solution, but I don't know what it is.
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