Hi there, I know frustrating it is and wanting someone to be able to tell you how long we have left. I as well am ER-, HER2+, and have mets to my lungs. All I can tell you is that my onc told me about five months ago that I had about a year to live. I was diagnosed in May of 2003. I have inflammatory breast cancer. Even though she told me this, I really don't feel like I'm checking out in what would be about 7 months. So, I guess maybe a third opinion wouldn't hurt. We can never have to much information. And, I would also suggest you look up information about your specific type of cancer on the internet. That is where I learned most of the information I got about mine. If you ever need to vent, feel free to email me anytime.
Martha
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