[sarah]

I think a thoughtful, heartfelt note or card is good because it's something that lasts. I also tend to give boxes of chocolate and flowers.
and I agree to be there for them when they need help and others.
It's part of the reason that when I was asked to help start an English speaking support group here in France, I jumped right in because I felt it was a way of giving back. I think that's how everyone in the support group feels.
stay well
health and happiness
love sarah