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Re: What do we do now?
I am so sorry to read this...I have always identified with you because we are so close in age and our diagnosis is almost identical
he said he cant just turn off the fear and anxiety yet he expects you too? the person who just went through all the hellish treatments? that fear about the future, anxiety about what just happened needs to be worked out together. Neither person in the relationship will ever be the same - but you are certainly not at fault, you have just been through a LIFE THREATENING illness and yes our relationships suffer and it takes time. Two years is not that long -especially when you were in treatment for half of it.
I agree with Denise - if that was reasoning then he wasn't the man you thought you married
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right breast IDC 2.2 cm LVI
neoadjuvant fecx3, tax and her x3
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25 rads
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