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linn65 · 12-01-2013, 07:39 PM

My ex married is 40 year old blonde girlfriend. And I feel down because we can. Never all be together with GF kids for an hour when our son comes from college . My ex likes to keep everything separate and it makes it harder on our son, and I hate it.

So Wednesday my son came home and picked up my car and drove it until today when he flew home. His friend drove him to airport and drove my car back to my house. Ex and new wife drive over and never say there are coming I just see them driving down the road. I was mad, angry and again thought I would have not treated him like that. He is full of himself and he just hates me.

I think they hope I disappear. I don't know what to do with my anger about someone that truly doesn't care to get along. It's her 3 rd time around and it was final in July that blows me away too.. She seems to care more about my kid then her own. I have to let go of the anger cuz no one cares,,,any ideas?

12-01-2013, 07:39 PM	#1
linn65 Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: Attica, IN Posts: 371	Is there any Holiday Hope? My ex married is 40 year old blonde girlfriend. And I feel down because we can. Never all be together with GF kids for an hour when our son comes from college . My ex likes to keep everything separate and it makes it harder on our son, and I hate it. So Wednesday my son came home and picked up my car and drove it until today when he flew home. His friend drove him to airport and drove my car back to my house. Ex and new wife drive over and never say there are coming I just see them driving down the road. I was mad, angry and again thought I would have not treated him like that. He is full of himself and he just hates me. I think they hope I disappear. I don't know what to do with my anger about someone that truly doesn't care to get along. It's her 3 rd time around and it was final in July that blows me away too.. She seems to care more about my kid then her own. I have to let go of the anger cuz no one cares,,,any ideas? __________________ myleftlump.wordpress.com - started blogging my IDC breast cancer 7/2012 diagnosed with multiple solid lesions 7/20/12 biopsy done. ER+ 30 PR -, HER+++,k167 80% Grade 2 9/2012 biopsy on lymph node - showed malignant 9/2012 Pre-adjunctive TCH chemo. 12/6/12 MRI after Pre-adj. Results: Modest Decrease in size of left breast malignancy As well as the associated satellite lesions and auxiliary Adenopathy compared to prior study. Doctors hoped for better but good response it didn't grow. 12/18/2012 left masectomy with axillary nodes Size 3.2 CM, Nottingham score 9/9 Grade 3, no evidence of in situ carcinoma Areas of angiolymphatic are identified Carcinoma is 0.5 cm from inked deep Margin of excision Attached axillary lymph nodes: metastatic Carcinoma in 6 of 8 nodes. Size of largest node 1.5 cm Extracapsular ER + 73%, PR+2%, HER2+ 2/27/13 6 weeks of IMRT radiation finished 2/2013 Started on Tamoxifan 5 years. 8/2013 will take last Herceptin, 17 treatments total every 3 weeks. BRCA1 & BRAC2 - Negative August 28, 2013 DIEP flap on the left breast. February 2014 Nip & Tuck March 14, 2014 nipple reconstruction and removed port. August 14, 2014 lump in lymph nodes under arm and above clavicle. Stage IV August 28, 2014 herceptin And projeta starting and port put back in. 3/18/15 stopped arimidex. 3/18/15 progression....Tdm1