Rob, I am so sorry for your loss. Here is a link that might interest you- it's to a special Breast Cancer Prevention Program at UCSF. I don't know where you live, but maybe there is something like this at a nearby cancer center-
http://www.ucsfhealth.org/programs/b...ram/index.html
My own daughter, in her 20's has started to go to UCSF for an annual appointment.
good luck to you, and again, so sorry for your losses.
Turtle.