All GREAT advice. Thank you everyone. After a sleepless night I came to pretty much the same conclusion. I can only tell her how her actions made me feel and I don't have to be a jerk and do it in a mean way to feel better. I can simply state fact and how it made me feel. And I think you are all right, not to mention the funeral. My husband will have to deal with that.
But at least I can gracefully say what's on my mind and then move on so that's what I will try to do. GULP. I will keep you posted if I can muster up the courage.
Thanks for listening and really for great, sound advice.
You guys are so wonderful and I am blessed to be a part of this wonderful list.
Rosie
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