[Ellie F]

Hi FOB
Tried the link to the puppy but no picture! Will try to google it.

It's very hard when you get a negative onc. I know that from personal experience. My first onc stopped herceptin when I recurred and told me it was a waste of money!! Fortunately my sisters here on the board were outraged and pushed me to get another opinion. I was very new and naive at that stage I know.My second op onc restarted herceptin with taxotere and then referred me to a similar minded colleague at a centre nearer home. They have all been clear that they can't cure my bc but are more positive about controlling it and giving me a quality of life.
Who knows whats round the next corner? Who knows what plan God has for any of us and who knows whether tomorrow may be the day some gifted scientist stumbles on the cure!
If you still feel unhappy get your GP to refer you to another centre for a second opinion. Sometimes fresh eyes are good.
Ellie