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Barbara H. · 01-25-2006, 05:14 PM

Hi Jaunita,
My daughter was a freshman in college when I was first diagnosed and had a mascectomy. It was difficult for her to handle for many reasons. My son was in 6th grade. He didn't talk about it at the time, except that he was afraid of catching it from me. Now I realize that it must have been difficult for him. I think that you can't force the conversation with a 14 year old. You can let her know that she can ask you any questions she may have, and that you are always there to listen. I'm sure that your willingness to be there for her is a help.
Best wishes,
Barbara H.

01-25-2006, 05:14 PM	#2
Barbara H. Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Newton, MA Posts: 951	Hi Jaunita, My daughter was a freshman in college when I was first diagnosed and had a mascectomy. It was difficult for her to handle for many reasons. My son was in 6th grade. He didn't talk about it at the time, except that he was afraid of catching it from me. Now I realize that it must have been difficult for him. I think that you can't force the conversation with a 14 year old. You can let her know that she can ask you any questions she may have, and that you are always there to listen. I'm sure that your willingness to be there for her is a help. Best wishes, Barbara H.