Re: How do you cope with losing a child
Dear Mom,
I'm very sorry for your loss. I have children, and if I were to outlive any of them I would be devastated.
As a member of this board I experience a kind of survivor guilt. Many of the women I've gotten to know and come to love have died. It is especially heartbreaking when a young mother dies. I'm 60, my kids are grown and launched. Your daughter was just getting started. It's so unfair.
I strongly recommend you find a grief group. Also, don't worry about being angry with God. Read the Psalms, and Job. God can take it.
Amy
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