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Old 02-07-2013, 09:20 AM   #2
'lizbeth
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Re: How can I help her?

What would you want to hear if it was you? You are still the person that is going through cancer with her. Ask her to think about what she help she needs, she might not even know yet herself.

When someone is at their lowest, they need a strong caring friend like you to give them love and support.

The game is not over, she is still alive and with the right treatment might be able to recover from this devastating situation. But if she cannot, she will need your love and support to die in a dignified way, on her terms.

By asking what can you do, I know you are a good friend that will do what she can.
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Stage IIb Invasive Ductal Carcinoma, Pagets, 3 of 15 positive nodes

Traditional Treatment: Mastectomy and Axillary Node Dissection followed by Taxotere, 6 treatments and 1 year of Herceptin, no radiation
Former Chemo Ninja "Takizi Zukuchiri"

Additional treatments:
GP2 vaccine, San Antonio Med Ctr
Prescriptive Exercise for Cancer Patients
ENERGY Study, UCSD La Jolla

Reconstruction: TRAM flap, partial loss, Revision

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