Good advice all around.
Lasarles - my oncologist said the same thing to me about getting in a car accident, totally put things into perspective!
Becky - I have suggested therapy, and he isnt interested. I decided that I could always start with me, so I am in the process of finding a good therapist.
Darlene - I didnt get your message
Maybe I am in a little bit of denial about things being different, because I want them to be "normal" so bad. Grrrrrrr. I need to keep my ears open and pay better attention!