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Old 10-11-2010, 02:44 PM   #1
ginnyg898
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Join Date: Sep 2010
Location: Northern California
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Angry Advice on work situation

Hi All:

I wanted to get some feedback on the situation I find myself in with my employer. I work for a large legal documentation firm and I was very forthcoming when I was diagnosed with BC. At first, my boss was very sympathetic and said she would do anything possible to make life easy for me while I get through treatment. She offered a flexible schedule, working from home during treatment weeks, etc. However, in the 8 weeks since diagnosis she has made it clear that she is NOT happy with my absences due to tests/treatment; she picks at me about my absences rather frequently. She has refused any kind of work-from-home arrangement, and has basically said I need to 'step up' and work harder. Now that I have started chemo some days are really tough and the option to work from home would be a huge help physically. I recently spoke to the recruiter that placed me in my job and she suggested I revisit the conversation regarding flexible hours and call her if it does not help. I did...and it did not

Has anyone dealt with this kind of situation? I dont want to go on disability; I dont think I need to...but I also find myself completely stressed out about this situation. If I could afford to be home I sure would, but also not an option.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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41 Years Old
Dx w/IDC in August '10
No family history
ER+/PR-/HER2+
2.2cm tumor/Stage 2A
No node involvement
Tested negative for BRCA 1/2
Participated in a UCLA clinical trial testing TCH and/or Lapatinib in stage 1/2/3 bc patients that can be removed by surgery.
Underwent neo-adjuvant therapy to shrink tumor prior to surgery.
1st Surgery date: 2/16/11
Pathology report indicated ADH/DCIS in margin.
2nd Surgery: 3/21/11
Clean margins!
Started radiation: 4/11/11
Completed radiation: 7/8/11
1st post-surgical mammogram: 8/16/11 - CLEAR!
6 Weeks of Tamoxifen - Failure to Respond
Started Lupron/Arimidex: 8/29/11
Herceptin until September '11

Recurrence - August 2018
Same profile - ER+/PR-/HER2+
Undergoing neo-adjuvant therapy prior to surgery;
Gemzar, Carboplatin, Herceptin & Perjeta
Chemo through the end of 2018...
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