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Old 10-30-2009, 05:51 PM   #8
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Re: Need Advice

Angela,

Wow, you sure have been through a lot!

Your family may be the one that needs a break...

I went to a rehabilitation counselor 3, 4 years after my first brain tumor surgery. He explained to me that while a person with 'head injury' thinks he is doing things the normal way, others observe it as in 'slow motion'.

The brain needs time to heal. The best way to heal it is to keep it up and get those brain cells connected (synapse) by exercising both physically and mentally. Working part-time could be an excellent solution if your employer will work with you.

I have finally applied for disability after 4 major surgeries (since 1990) all involved with head injuries (yes, chemo and radiation 'hurt' our brain - but our brain can recover - do you know that most people don't use but 3% of their brain cells?) It's not admitting defeat, though it felt that way and I did wrestle with it.

Relizing that 'coordinating' your own care with all parties involoved is quite a [full-time] job. Let your loved ones know that 'Her-2' breast cancer is now the best type one can have because of herceptin. Be careful when reading statistics becaue Herceptin was not widely used until after 2005. (Approved for first-line treatment in 2007?) Many of our members are 'long-time survivors' (you can check those 'threads' by using the 'Search' button.)
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