Hello Lien,
Sorry I'm so dense! I should have guessed what OTOH meant
blame it on chemo brain.
I know...hard decisions. I guess just get as much info as you can on long term effects. There is a lot of info on a link that I posted on the her2 thread in science daily online about AI's, tamoxifen, etc. or just google to see what the scientific world has to say (as I'm sure you're doing!)
I feel like I would probably accept any side effects as well. I ain't finished living yet
and would love to make it to my 60's, 70's and even 80's, and watch my daughter getting older. Maybe even have a grandchild. It's not easy to make these decisions at any age, that I know. In fact, maybe harder, as I've been in a loving relationship for a long time and have had my child around for 33 years.
I understand your wish to see your child grow up. They never quit growing in so many ways and no mother is every ready to say goodbye. I hope & pray for all of us, and hope you make the right choice for you,
Dianne