[Ruth]

Jen,

Thank you so much for letting us know. Joy holds this special place in so many hearts and I want to tell you my humble opinion of why. She wrote here with such grace, humor and kindness...also she was just endearing as she was looking for love and dating. I had so many good laughs from the "losers" and the "hot ones" that she encountered. Even though support groups are in many ways impersonal...anyone can be anyone they want to be and not who they really are when it is on the internet. Yet, the way Joy wrote you KNEW who she was. I never met her in person but I feel like I would know her voice. Does that make sense? She is truly a gift and I know we are all praying for her right now. You are such a wonderful sister to do this for her and for us. Unfortunetely I don't have advice on treatments to try but you have gotten so much good advice already. I just want her better and not in pain.
Ruth