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Believe51 · 07-18-2009, 09:47 PM

Thanks for all the replies, I am off to a good start and things are bound to get ugly. I am not worried about getting money for maintainence because we put thousands of dollars into this place knowingly over our 16 years together. We do not expect this back but I also do not expect anyone else to be enjoying the new countertops or tile-enclosed shower!

I have spent most of my life here and Ed has spent all of our relationship here. I had always stayed here because my plans were to remain super close to them (grandmonsters) and this was a sacrifice I have regretted more and more as time goes on. I thought at this point in life I would be taking care of them, huhh. Anyway, Ed is going to pass away in this place we call home.

There is no reasoning with a money-grubbing, self-centered devil. Talking will only force her to push her weight, her controlling animal ways but I will have to try. I am serious though, she is not human I just know it!

Wait until August 1st when I tell her I need a written increase 30 days beforehand. She will argue because she thinks she is powerful, not realizing that law is stronger than her and it is on my side....oh lala!!>>Believe51

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Believe51 Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: RHODE ISLAND (Ed getting me a latte on 2nd Cancerversary Cruise 2008) 'BELIEVE': To accept as true or real, To have faith in, To presume ALWAYS BELIEVE Posts: 2,999	Thanks for all the replies, I am off to a good start and things are bound to get ugly. I am not worried about getting money for maintainence because we put thousands of dollars into this place knowingly over our 16 years together. We do not expect this back but I also do not expect anyone else to be enjoying the new countertops or tile-enclosed shower! I have spent most of my life here and Ed has spent all of our relationship here. I had always stayed here because my plans were to remain super close to them (grandmonsters) and this was a sacrifice I have regretted more and more as time goes on. I thought at this point in life I would be taking care of them, huhh. Anyway, Ed is going to pass away in this place we call home. There is no reasoning with a money-grubbing, self-centered devil. Talking will only force her to push her weight, her controlling animal ways but I will have to try. I am serious though, she is not human I just know it! Wait until August 1st when I tell her I need a written increase 30 days beforehand. She will argue because she thinks she is powerful, not realizing that law is stronger than her and it is on my side....oh lala!!>>Believe51 __________________ 9/7/06Husband 50yrs=StageIV IBC/HER2+,BoneMets10/06TaxotereX10,'H'1X wk,Zometa,Tamoxifen4/12/07Last Tax5/18/07Pet=Rapid Cell Activity,No Organ Mets,Lytic Lesions,Degeneration,Some Bone Repair5/07ChemoFail6/01/07Pleural Thoracentisis=Effusions,NoMalignantCells6/19/07+7/2/07DFCI 6/25/07BrainMRI=BrainMets,Many<9mm7/10/07WBR/PelvisRad37.5Gx15&Nutritionist8/19/07T/X9/20/07BrainMRI=2<2mm10/6/07Pet=BoneProgression 10/24/07ChemoFail11/9/07A/Cx10,EndTam12/7/07Faslodex12/10/07Muga7512/13/07BlasticLesions1/7/08BrainMRI=Clear4/1/08Pet=BoneImprovement, NoProgression,Stable4/7/08BrainPerfect5/16/08Last A/C8/26/08BrainMets=10(<9mm)9/10/08Gamma10/30/08Met=5mm12/19/08Gamma5mets5 12/22/08SpinalMets1/14/09SpinalRads2/17/09BrainMRI=NoNewMets4/20/09BoneScan5/14/09Ixempra6/1/09BrainMRI=NumerousMets6/24/09DFCIw/DrBurstein6/26/09Continue Ixempra/Faslodex/Zometa~TM now lower7/17/09Stop Ixempra By Choice9/21/09HOSPICE10/16/09Earned His Deserved Wings And Halo=37 Month Fight w/Stage 4 IBC, Her2+++,My Hero!!