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Old 07-16-2009, 11:26 AM   #8
Believe51
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You guys always amaze me. Looks like Rhode Island has no rent control so I am stuck with this, she will however, have to do this in writing, 30 days. She is planning on giving me a new lease on August 1st and I am sure that the new rate is there. I cannot sign this until the 30 days end. Of course grandmonster will get livid about this and contact her lawyer, whining that she has to evict another family member. There is little reasoning with her but I will try to play her game a bit longer. Sad part is her spiteful behavior and not the increase. Do not fear though my little chickadees, I have water damaged in two rooms from a roof leak. I am going to try to barder her to allow me to fix them for money, she might not bite. I will get this done either way.

I am not trying to anger her or make this difficult. As long as she gets her money she will dismiss my feelings just like the rest of my life and act like life is grand. I am really hurt because Ed has done all maintainance here for 16 years, everything. We have never done anything that explains her behavior except she is an evil person uncapable of loving. I do believe that when judgement day comes for her she will be passed over for holding up the line. Hopefully I can be forgiven for not being able to get through this so-called relationship, she does not bring out my best of qualities. (lol)

I am still angered but trying to say the hell with it. She is a person that takes and never replaces, I cannot have her stealing the best parts of me anymore, she is too draining. And this time the only stress I want to feel is getting him well. We will not allow her to attend the funeral and again this is not to start a war. She has no place in Mighty Oak's final farwell into Angelhood nor his celebration of life.

So for now I have a lawyer but wishing it does not get to that point. Here goes nothing.>>Believe51
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