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Becky · 10-02-2008, 08:19 PM

Dear Joy

Your picture alone always makes me smile. I could go on and on but its late and I wanted to respond right NOW to one item in your post (I'll post again later to reverberate my go get em cheer).

Just in case you have to prove how much time you have the girls versus the ex - start writing it down (including the phone calls). Do it for a month. It'll be a pain in your a__ but you will have some ammo if you have to have it. Even put down what he's doing if you know (like a Saturday the kids are with you but you know he's going to Nascar or on a date with Jane Doe).

You might really need the info and then you can prove that you have them 93% of the time and he has them 7% (and its really 4% because they call you X amount of hours while they're with him). If you have to go before a judge its better to say I know than I think.

Good night sweetie

10-02-2008, 08:19 PM	#5
Becky Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Stockton, NJ Posts: 4,179	Dear Joy Your picture alone always makes me smile. I could go on and on but its late and I wanted to respond right NOW to one item in your post (I'll post again later to reverberate my go get em cheer). Just in case you have to prove how much time you have the girls versus the ex - start writing it down (including the phone calls). Do it for a month. It'll be a pain in your a__ but you will have some ammo if you have to have it. Even put down what he's doing if you know (like a Saturday the kids are with you but you know he's going to Nascar or on a date with Jane Doe). You might really need the info and then you can prove that you have them 93% of the time and he has them 7% (and its really 4% because they call you X amount of hours while they're with him). If you have to go before a judge its better to say I know than I think. Good night sweetie __________________ Kind regards Becky Found lump via BSE Diagnosed 8/04 at age 45 1.9cm tumor, ER+PR-, Her2 3+(rt side) 2 micromets to sentinel node Stage 2A left 3mm DCIS - low grade ER+PR+Her2 neg lumpectomies 9/7/04 4DD AC followed by 4 DD taxol Used Leukine instead of Neulasta 35 rads on right side only 4/05 started Tamoxifen Started Herceptin 4 months after last Taxol due to trial results and 2005 ASCO meeting & recommendations Oophorectomy 8/05 Started Arimidex 9/05 Finished Herceptin (16 months) 9/06 Arimidex Only Prolia every 6 months for osteopenia NED 18 years! Said Christopher Robin to Pooh: "You must remember this: You're braver than you believe and stronger than you seem and smarter than you think"