Joy,
I am always happy to see your posts and get an update on how things are going for you. You are such a positive influence on this board and I know for your kids and Luca and his kids.
I'm sorry about the money issues with your ex. It might be time for your lawyer to be involved in getting things straightened out. It sounds like he needs a refresher course. I used to practice law (a whole lifetime ago!) and it's better not to let these things get too far down the road.
My birthday is Monday (42 - yikes!) but I have to say I'm not getting the royal treatment like you are! Enjoy!
I hope the new medicines treat you well! Keep us posted
Love,
Beth