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Old 09-03-2008, 07:42 AM   #5
Believe51
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Welcome Rich, sorry we had to meet this way. I am also so sorry to hear about Mom's illness and want to personally commend you for your search to help her. Finding out about a loved one having this terrible disease is tough to comprehend and much data to filter. You have taken the first step by coming here. These family members are full of knowledge, support and wisdom.

Hang tight dear Rich, help is on the way. We have many members here that either have liver mets, have researched them or know someone whom has them. There is a wealth of knowledge and love here to embrace you and Mom as you continue on this journey. We will send you links to try to help aid your research for answers. Some of the things you learn you can take to the doctors for 'ammo', as they may spark more questions!

I hear the panic in your voice and have heard the same from mine in the past (and sometimes still do). This time for you may make you feel helpless and you may think you have no control over anything. You do Sweetheart, you have come here to search for help and that is a great first step. You are Mom's best advocate and I commend you for your dedication. The answers you get here or the questions you gather for her doctor will help those feelings lighten up a bit. Try to take a step back, breathe deep, search the forums. Search bar is up on top and very user friendly. "Liver Mets" should be enough. Any specific questions or feelings, please start a new post so you can get your own replies.

It is a tough job to be a caregiver, please take care of yourself while helping Mom. Also, we will be following her journey so post to us when you know more and you have the time.

I will be thinking of you both on Friday and holding you close to heart. Best of luck Rich's Mom, we are here for you. And Rich, a special prayer for you, you are a peach>>Believe51
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